He would have risked far less than he did having sleepovers with 10 year old boys, and no one - including the kids' parents - told him no. People like that don't have people around them who say the N word.
And I'm not saying trans is weird ... though if we took a poll... but I'm saying he was weird on a level that few people understand or even come close to. It was far beyond any of that. On a level and in a dimension far beyond what people can imagine, though it looks like he spend close to 1/2 a billion dollars in his 50 year life, and that can buy a lot of weirdness.