Confusion

[Calistine]

I think most people feel the way you do. Its because the changes are irreversible, like I know if I just was a girl things would be easier. But if you really don't feel that way, then you can't ignore it. You have to take it day by day to decide if its really what you want.

[Paulina]

I am not a transgendered, but thanks everyone for helping me through the past few months.

I guess it just went away, and I am leaving this site now, since I don't think I have any inclinations to be transgendered/cross dresser/androgynous. I don't understand how I went through the couple months thinking I was, but at least I know who I am more.

[maidenprincess]

I'm sorry to say, but I think you will be back.

[Calistine]

You will be back. You may feel confused for now. But being transgendered does not "go away"

[colormyworld]

I wouldn't be so quick to judge that they will or will not be back. If one was never transgender in the first place, there's nothing to 'go away'. I believe that everyone goes through different phases as they find their true selves. From puberty up until about college, (at least for a good percentage of people) life is just one big 'awkward stage' where you're constantly trying to figure out "Who am I?".

Everyone's different, if that wasn't the case, the world would be a very boring place.

Just my $.02..

[julianne]

Of course you'll be back - i was so confused - but ultimately there is only one question - am I female? If the answer is yes, then you need to become a woman - nothing else will really make you who you need to be. My answer was yes - deep down I am female! And I never looked back once I made that call and started full time as a woman.
Good luck!!