A question for the guys here

[Haunted]

Hi, I'am not really a ->-bleeped-<- although I have crossdressed some times and i kind have a feminine personality and I for some reason feel a really strong attraction to women with masculine attributes. Not to creep anyone out here but I'am like to totally obsessed with women that act like guys especially like tomboys. I'am not bi or gay, its just when I see a girl with a tough personality I'am like OMG shes so rare I so wish I could ask her out b4 someone else asks her.. Forgive me god this is like a sin because guys are supposed to be tough and like feminine women and I got the whole thing in reverse but I feel like this is really what I want. When I say masculine I just mean like independant, outgoing hopefully not like terminator tough but even that is still attractive. Am I really messed up ? I think so..

anyway my question is, do you think I have a chance of finding a ftm that would like me even if I'am though i'am not really tran myself?

[Osiris]

Hi Haunted, welcome to Susan's.

First thing's first. If you're attracted to ftms because of the reasons you described above you're looking in the wrong place. Why? Because ftms aren't women, yes we have a female body but do not identify as female. So if you're looking for a masculine woman you're not going to find it in an ftm.

But there are women out there who are more like what you're going for. Keep your eyes open.

And as for being messed up. Nothing's wrong with being attracted to a certain aspects of someone's personality. We all are more attracted to people with certain traits than others so don't worry about it. I'm sure you'll find someone who you like and will like ya back.

[Nero]

Ftms usually have their breasts removed and go on testosterone, so it depends on what you like in the female body. (This is what I assume you mean, that you like female bodies?) As Osiris said - an ftm is not the same as a masculine woman.

[Mister]

If you like women that act like guys, then you most certainly will not like me.  I have a beard, chest hair, no breasts and a cock and balls.  No more pussy, no more tits, no more girl ANYTHING.

Also, if that's what you think FTMs are, I suggest you do some googling before you keep posting.
Post Merge: July 20, 2009, 12:27:58 AM

Because ftms aren't women, yes we have a female body but do not identify as female.

speak for yourself.

[Jamie-o]

speak for yourself.

Uh-oh.  Look out, Osiris.  You've threatened Mister's manhood again.

[Teknoir]

To answer your question - FTM's come in as many orientations as anyone else. It really depends on the guy. There are gay FTM's around who are attracted to other men.

Notice I said guy, and other men. You like women? Then FTM's are not your thing.

Also, the term "->-bleeped-<-" generally refers to ->-bleeped-<-s, and it's offsensive (to both them and us). We are not ->-bleeped-<-s. Or crossdressers. We're just regular guys.

What you're after is a tomboy. That's not us.

You should really read more wiki's.

[Mister]

Uh-oh.  Look out, Osiris.  You've threatened Mister's manhood again.

Nope.  But there are people on this board who have completed their transitions, not only those who identify male but have yet to take any steps to get the ball rolling. 

[Osiris]

Apologies if you took offense to my above statement. Here let me rephrase it: Some of us may have bodies that resemble females but do not identify as female.

Better?

[Miniar]

We may have been born into female bodies, but that doesn't make us girls.

[DRAIN]

anyway my question is, do you think I have a chance of finding a ftm that would like me even if I'am though i'am not really tran myself?

not to mention, you certainly don't have to be trans to be attracted to the type of girl you want 

[Silver]

Only if you're gay. So no.

[Chamillion]

I know I don't belong in this forum, but I noticed the post and just though I could answer one part of it. I'm biologically male, but I do like my gf a lot even if she would kick my ass if we ever started a fight, got more balls then me and a fearless kind of attitude that don't take no ->-bleeped-<-. She is strong, knows more about cars then me (I know nothing), likes sports, and has been in lots of fights. She would attack a whole crowd if someone pissed her off. She is the dominant one that rolls her eyes when I start sulking about my emotional issues. And I don't think there is anything wrong about liking that in a girl.

Absolutely, there's nothing wrong with liking that in a girl, and there's nothing wrong with girls who are that way. The problem is that FtM's aren't girls