Sex is overrated.

[Alex_C]

Why do'nt you want it to grow?

I told one of my male buddies that it'd be kinda cool to have a cock that just kinda sucks up into my body when not needed, like a dolphin or Brian the dog in Family Guy.

But basically um well, more meat is good. I mean the darned thing pre-T is so small, you can't do much with it. It's so much fun having it bigger, and the fun shivery feeling when it perks up, sometimes for no reason at all. Getting something like a real ->-bleeped-<- is going to be great. Having it grow enough to do some actual penetration, if I am so lucky, is going to be fulfilling my life's dream.

[Walter]

I guess I'm still new to the transition thing cuz I didn't know (even with surgery) that it could be possible to do penetration

[Alex_C]

Apparently with our tiny litle dicks a little bit of penetration is possible. And as for ->-bleeped-<-s, well, it's a lot more fun with something the size of a  Brazil nut as opposed to something the size of small peanut or smaller.

[Walter]

Even a little is better than none. I wonder what a BJ feels like..

[Alex_C]

A good BJ is supposed to feel absolutely incredible.

[tekla]

I wonder what a BJ feels like..

It's like sex, but without the work.

[Alex_C]

That sounds like fun, although I'm not known to be work-shy.

[darius82501]

I think about sex a lot. I always think of sex as a male so my problems with sex are that I really hate penetration and have a difficult time getting my mind where it needs to be to orgasm with a girl. I can, with vibrators, orgasm on my own, but penetration hurts and is just not pleasurable at all for me. I also am not a fan of my breasts being touched. This limits what my partner can and can't so and can frustrate them since I do not orgasm. Although, I do not orgasm per se, I really enjoy pleasing my girl. So, I do enjoy sex and continue to work on getting to the point where I can orgasm. I can understand why the dysphoria of your physical self being wrong could make one feel as if sex is overrated. I DO believe if you really are comfortable with someone and that passion for them is there, sex is soooooo much better. 

I am still considering transition as well. I like to talk to some of the guys who have done and are in the process. It helps to make my decisions. I assume that I will and sooner than later.

[Alex_C]

I've never been penetrated so that's a total blank for me, I told my last GF she could try out the strapon she had on me, and that was a "no way" deal, she enjoyed me using it on her though! I wanted to see what it felt like, oh well.

Yes pleasing HER is the big thing with me, and I can sort of do "little" orgasms with a partner so far but not the big, deep ones. I figure it's a matter of time, and being on T now, maybe growth. 

[sneakersjay]

All I can say is stimulation is WAY more pleasurable now that it's grown and is visible vs when it was tiny and invisible.

Jay

[Alex_C]

Yes! Growth is good.

[Calistine]

I actually do think I would like sex if I had a meta. I dont mind what ive got per say but a penis feels like something I should have.

[Alex_C]

That's how the vast majority of us feel, that we should have a penis.

[Shelina]

Kyle you know I'm a straight mtf and if I would have been a biological female I would have been a straight female but you, you look so handsome that despite you're a ftm I would have made an exception just for you even you did not have a dick. I really have a crush on you and Silverfang...LOL!

[Calistine]

Kyle you know I'm a straight mtf and if I would have been a biological female I would have been a straight female but you, you look so handsome that despite you're a ftm I would have made an exception just for you even you did not have a dick. I really have a crush on you and Silverfang...LOL!

Thanks girlie
Ha that makes me feel good. I cant tell you how much Ive hated being rejected by girls because "Im a girl too" Ugggh.

[Shelina]

Thanks girlie
Ha that makes me feel good. I cant tell you how much Ive hated being rejected by girls because "Im a girl too" Ugggh.

Oh boy we're exactly in the same ->-bleeped-<-ing boat, ALL but really ALL straight men I fell in love rejected me also cos am male, am more than fed up exhausted and this is the MAIN reason I decided to transition and the straights who accepted me, it was all about sex and I never really loved them but just liked them, it's the ones I LOVE which I am targeting. In fact there are 3 types of straights: 1. The extreme one who would not accept you even you're a post op knowing your past, he should not know, they fall into the majority. 2. The ones who CAN accept you BUT only if you're post op. 3. These ones have fallen into your charm and beauty and they generally make an exception for you. Unfortunately all men I have fallen in love with are in category 1. 

[Silver]

I really have a crush on you and Silverfang...LOL!

Aw shucks, Shelina.

SilverFang

[Shelina]

Aw shucks, Shelina.

SilverFang

Muah! 

[fluffy jorgen]

2. The ones who CAN accept you BUT only if you're post op.

Anyone who can only accept somebody else after ops= 
Too many of this type out there!

As for sex, sex is over rated, love making isn't. There is definetely a difference.

[Calistine]

As for sex, sex is over rated, love making isn't. There is definetely a difference.

Right on. Thats exactly what I was thinking but I didnt know how to describe it.

I learned today that antidepressants such as paxil lower sex drive. I have been on anti depressants for almost 2 years so that might have something to do with it.