Glad to hear that things are going as they should with the ears!!
FWIW, I got mine done last week... I went to a place where they will pretty much pierce whatever you like... I didn't want any part of that, but these people know what they're doing. For aftercare, all they gave me was this spray called "H2Ocean," basically purified seawater. Spray it on 3 to 6 times a day, and move the studs back and forth when you do, no need to clean them or remove them, leave 'em in for 2 months.
Knock on wood, but in the first week, have had no swelling, no redness, no nothing. Have been able to sleep on my side as I normally do every night.