What makes a woman a woman?

[Robin.]

I think you're right again! If that's the case then you are transgendered beacuse you go beyond our current society's views of gender, but you're not transexual because you're fine with your body being what it is (unless you're not). Just because you are a feminine male it doesn't mean you have to try to be a woman (whatever that is!). Sounds to me like you're just genderqueer.

I've been thinking about it alot lately, but honestly, I think the gender flop would maybe be worse for me but perhaps not as bad as staying as a male in this society. I don't really feel comfortable in my body, and for one i really don't like the testosterone flowing around in me, it makes me feel tense, I think... I mean in the gender flopped world i could cope maybe, because I would be able to express my self. But i think I would probably still be an odd one, becaue i even have my male interests, infact i sometimes imagine myself being a stong warrior woman type. But in such a world It would just be easier for me to cope with my body because my mind would be free to express its self, I think i would still feel dissatisfied with my body...IDK

You're fine just the way you are! In fact I think you sound fabulous

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