I said No. I hate being put into a fetish category. My current counselor tends to treat this like a fetish and it drives me nuts because to me it's not about sex. Sure, I've gotten aroused at some point during dressing in the past but I don't see that as any primary reason for transition or even just cding in general. If it was just that and I left it all in the bedroom, my wife would probably be much happier about the whole situation.
I read some stuff about categorizing heterosexual mtfs as autogenophelia lately and I was horrified. It seems to me that just because I can have sexual thoughts of being a woman, it doesn't mean that's my primary reason for transitioning. And such, I shouldn't be labled as only doing it because of a "sexual fetish."
I told my mother and father that if I couldn't orgasm after transition, I would still want to do it. I have only been having sex for 5 years now but I realize that it's not the most important thing in life.
