this is kind of personal... but i think about it a lot and don't really have anyone to talk to about it so i'm going to blab it here. thank you for indulging me...
in japan as well you need to have a hysto before legally changing the F to M on your official documents...
i met my boyfriend after he had the operation, but i didn't know that he had one and i didn't know what exactly a hysterectomy was, anyway... so when one day after we had been dating he was talking about his top surgery and other surgery.. i was like, "what other surgery?" ..then he explained it to me and i was really quite upset. we had only been dating for a short time, but of course one can and does daydream about 'what if's... i imagined that if we ever got married, i would had least have wanted to have one kid where we used his eggs and then i would carry it so it really would be our baby...
so when i found out that no, actually, it is impossible to have his kids, i was really shocked and upset and i've cried about it a couple of times, my eyes are even getting watery now thinking about it. at the time of the surgery, he never thought he would want kids, and he even thought he might be asexual or something, so there wasn't a question of saving any of his eggs... i don't know if he would have done anything different, but i know that he is troubled that he can't provide for me like he feels he should.
so all of you pre-hystorecomy ftms out there.. if you have the means, saving some eggs for a later date could be an option and may be the most priceless gift you could ever give your future spouse