Sophie:
Welcome to Susan's! Please take time to introduce yourself. You said that your date is quickly approaching, when will you have your surgery?
I am a McGinn girl, and I can say that I am quite satisfied with the results. I was her fifth patient. Check out my blog on the subject in "Sandy's Transition".
You are correct about there being no difference between the techniques used by all the surgeons.
I had my operation a year and a half ago, and the doctor recommended waiting at least six months before having a labiaplasty. I feel no need to seek to have this done, though I know one girl who did.
Once the tissues heal, there is no "Frankenpussy"

look to it. I have a completely natural looking labia/clitoris/vaginal vestibule. My partner has also said that I look completely natural as well.
Having a follow up labiaplasty is completely optional, and to my mind, mostly unnecessary. You will get more definition in your labia as a result, but having seen many, many pictures of both natural and surgically altered female genitalia, it is very natural looking.
I think you'll have a wonderful experience and will be completely satisfied. You will not be disappointed.
Yes, one of the primary reasons I chose Dr. McGinn was her passion. She says she has the best job on the planet, because she can help the community. Your term of being magical is very true.
BTW: You cannot modify your profile until you complete fifteen posts.
-Sandy