Gay?

[TracyQ]

Well, there is nothing wrong with that, right?  (Seinfeld, anyone?)

Thing is,  for sex,  I just like men,  and I am a man,  even though I dress and work 24/7 as a woman.  At one time, I was going to have SRS, but money (or the lack of it, LOL) got in the way.  So I guess I am gay.

For a long time, I didn't have any interest in sex at all, but now that I self-indentify as a gay crossdresser,  I find myself looking for sex more often,  and really enjoying it when I find it.

I even wish that I didn't have implants,  so that I could be more of a man,  or rather a sissy.  I love my breasts,  but, sometimes,  wish I had a flat chest.  Then I could really be a sissy man.

Weird, huh?

[LaPapito]

Weird huh... No not really!!!

First off can I say that you are very attractive...now with that being said...you had me until you said, "I wish I was flat chested" or "more manly..." (more of a man)...and sooo yes (then) you would be considered a gay man who cross-dresses...have you always felt this way... and is it a sexual connection (rather than) a mental one..? Do you feel sexually appealing as a woman having sex with a man, or do you feel it's most acceptable as a woman to have sex with a man...?? and to both of these questions; are the men that you date/have sex with gay-men as well or are they straight...?

For me as a f2M Crossdresser/Transsexual individual...my answers to both of the questins I proposed to you are: to the first: as a f2M crossdresser I am sexually attracted to straight women and perform sex just as a man would (because my mind set is totally male)..if  I allow some sort of female-ism to interfer with my male-ism than I would consider myself to be also a Lesbian...

Some of my close associates seem to think that just because I have sex with females that I too am a Lesbian...but they do not truly understand transgender people...because of my mental gender and how I perceive myself on the outside...I am a male dating a female who just happens to date and like people as myself...the second question is quite simple...I know that I am not gay...so for me to have a relationship with a woman based on my bio-gender would definenitly classify me as a Lesbian...to which I am not...

If you would have just stated that as a m2F crossdresser...you like only having sex with me...that is cool...because you also went a step further to having breast implants...but then you added, that you wish you hadn't got the implants...sissy-man...flat chest etc...ok/Honey now these are signs of a "gay" male...which is cool too...I think what happened here...is that you realized that you did not have to transform yourself (even though you did) to find out what you really enjoyed...which was having male-on-male sex as a man with men...and that's why I asked you, "Do you feel sexually appealing as a woman having sex with a man, or do you feel it's most acceptable as a woman to have sex with a man...??"

And girl here is a news flash...if'n you don't want 'em...lose 'em...just as you had the breasts put in ye so can have them removed