I'm no expert either, but for me I wear ladies underwear because it feels right, and I cannot wear outer clothes as I would like to, such as skirts and dresses, other than in the privacy of my own home. Knowing that I have panties and stockings under my work clothes helps to ease the need to dress up fully. I'd dress a woman much more, if it wasn't for that whole anti-TG attitude out there. Sure we have made gains, and there is an increased level of acceptance today than there was 20 years ago, but it is not as far as we would like.
Rose