So I finally came out to my now Ex-Girlfriend. I had already the feeling that it would not end well, but I did not want to keep her in the dark nor lie to her. So it started off a normal conversation, explaining that I need to tell her something but what I was going to tell her would probably kill the relationship. I pretty much gave her the option to hear it out and be done with me if she wants, and if need be I would move it at the end of the month. So I told her how I was transgendered. Explained what I plan on doing in the next few months as far as seeing a specialist. Well she didn't take it well. Said some bad things and walked out. I knew it would happen either way, but it still devastated me.
She comes back an hour later after calming down and tells me I can see why act and do some of things you do and I can't blame you as it is not your fault; however, we cannot be together but we can be friends and is given me to the end of June to move out if the friend thing doesn't work out. Although I lost a person close to me I like to think I possibly still have a friend. I am not going to hold my breath on it, but I will hope. She was truly the first person that I came out too, I totally expected much worse such as being chased out and my stuff being burned. Next step is to come out to my brother or sister first i think they will be easier to come out to as we tell each other everything, then the parents. I have a feeling the parents are not going to be happy and probably cast me aside but got figure out how to tell them.
