You're welcome!
I think that is the beauty of sites such is this, you can realise that you are not alone in this and that other people have trod similar paths.
It is a great relief to stop trying to fit into a box and just being yourself. I scored an excellent therapist too and an endo who is happy to work with gender variance. Makes a huge difference.
Having gone a long way in sorting out a lot of your mental stuff - i.e. just doing what feels right and authentic to you without labelling (probably still work to do in working out how you float in the grey, lots of exploring yet but sounds like you have a clearer path now), you could approach your GID as a separate issue.
Being in harmony is a fine thing. In some ways, having come to similar conclusions as you about not fitting into boxes, I felt added urgency to work out my GID. It no longer paralysed me into depression but it was clearer how it was bothering me. Instead of being one big lump of unhappy I could tease out all the pieces, separating the body from the presentation/behavioural/social role stuff.
Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, recognising that is won't always be good like right now, but I think you will find things will get easier with that big obstacle out of the way.
Take care
xx
