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i'm so fat. i wanna lose weight.

Started by YellowDaisy, December 11, 2009, 05:27:46 PM

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Nero

Find an exercise you love to do and stick with it. It doesn't have to be an 'exercise' exercise. Throw on your favorite music and dance. Rollerblade. Shoot some hoops. Garden. Just get into whatever physical activity you like. If you're doing something you hate, you'll be watching the clock and you won't do as much of it as you need. You kill two birds by incorporating what you like to do into your routine while losing weight.
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myles

Permanent weight loss definitely takes a life style change versus a diet. If you diet that will be temporary and eventually your weight will all  (or most) come back. As Nero pointed out find something you like to do then you are more likely to stick with it. I also have done low carbs (with lower fat) but pretty much stuck with it, changed what I eat a a daily basis permanently. Now if you do not like vegetables this may be a little harder. I like vegetables and fruit, not a huge dessert fan maybe have it once a week. If I want something sweet i have non fat jello.  My SO can not stand vegetable and loves pasta she has not been able to sustain any sort of weight loss in the end just doesn't like what is healthy for her. Bit of an issue in the house mostly because she has other health issues that would be better is she was not as overweight as she is now.
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Lachlann

I think it's more of an issue of using diet to mean something that it's not. These days people consider dieting to mean that you don't eat at all or cut back, when diet is really just about what you eat, how many portions and how frequently. A huge part of exercise is how you eat, it probably accounts for even more than the actual exercising which is still important.

But if you aren't adjusting your diet, like others have been saying, then you will have less success. More small meals a day with healthy food will boost your metabolism for instance. Walking is a good way to start like I've said before. And I agree with everyone else that you should start off slow because you and your body need time to adjust. When people start working out, they tend to eat more than when they weren't. Why? Because their body and metabolism needs that extra boost of energy. Eating a healthy breakfast gets your metabolism going in the morning. The difference is what kinds of foods you are eating. That isn't easy when you're a picky eater, but there are a variety of healthy foods that we simply overlook, and the truth is you can probably find a combination that you like.

And Nero is absolutely right. Find something you like to do that would exercise your body. If it works out your entire body then even better. You want to make this fun, and it can be.

But the thing is, your diet is a very important aspect in this. Treat it just as important as the exercises.
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noxdraconis

Quote from: myles on December 12, 2009, 09:10:26 AM
Permanent weight loss definitely takes a life style change versus a diet. If you diet that will be temporary and eventually your weight will all  (or most) come back. As Nero pointed out find something you like to do then you are more likely to stick with it. I also have done low carbs (with lower fat) but pretty much stuck with it, changed what I eat a a daily basis permanently. Now if you do not like vegetables this may be a little harder. I like vegetables and fruit, not a huge dessert fan maybe have it once a week. If I want something sweet i have non fat jello.  My SO can not stand vegetable and loves pasta she has not been able to sustain any sort of weight loss in the end just doesn't like what is healthy for her. Bit of an issue in the house mostly because she has other health issues that would be better is she was not as overweight as she is now.

What about meat, does she like that?  I personally hate vegetables with a fiery and flaming passion (have not eaten one since I learned how to say "no" as a child), but I have had good success with a meat and milk diet that has little carbs.  In 3 months I had lost 7.5 kilo.  I think the  main thing is cutting the carbs.


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myles

She is fine with meat but LOVES pasta, did do a low carb for about 2 years and dropped and kept off a lot of weight. She has yoyod for the last 2 or 3 years and has just said it's not happening I am going to just be this big, which is likely to get bigger as life goes on. She can't stand exercise either, her favorite sport is reading. While it is great for the mind, not so great for the body. Also hard on her career as she was working in the sporting goods industry and with her age (all grey hair) and weight she has now moved over to the software industry. She would love to get back to outdoor/sporting goods but would need to at least lose the weight and she is just not willing to do that.
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Miniar

Switch to wholewheat pasta instead of white pasta



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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Nero on December 12, 2009, 06:46:09 AM
Find an exercise you love to do and stick with it. It doesn't have to be an 'exercise' exercise. Throw on your favorite music and dance. Rollerblade. Shoot some hoops. Garden. Just get into whatever physical activity you like. If you're doing something you hate, you'll be watching the clock and you won't do as much of it as you need. You kill two birds by incorporating what you like to do into your routine while losing weight.
Another catch 22 - what I love to do is swim.

No regular access to a pool. I suspect that when I get enough of the load off that dancing would work but right now there's no coordination or flexibility or whatever...it's just a train wreck at this size.

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Now if you do not like vegetables this may be a little harder. I like vegetables and fruit, not a huge dessert fan maybe have it once a week. If I want something sweet i have non fat jello.

I tend to think that this is the real dividing line between people who succeed and those who don't succeed at all or you-yo.

Those who are at least ok with quality stuff like veggies and fruits do well, those who can't choke down that stuff struggle.

I tried the Atkins thing once and as much as I like meat (and eggs and cheese) it was a lot more difficult than I thought to drop everything else.
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YellowDaisy

Quote from: Laura Hope on December 11, 2009, 11:04:51 PM
I'm not on HRT yet though....

Post Merge: December 11, 2009, 11:08:24 PM
therein, I think, is my problem.

that which makes up a weight-loss friendly diet is pretty much all the stuff I'd pretty much just as soon go hungry as eat.

I wish I could be hypnotized to hate the donuts and love the broccoli (figuratively speaking)
oh, sorry. i just assumed you were because it looks like you have breasts in your picture.
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myles

Miniar - She can;t stand whole wheat pasta. At this point i have just given up and it's up to her. I have tried to cook healthy stuff and so forth and there is always an excuse so I am pretty much done trying. I decided she needs to help herself at this point, I can't do it all.
Laura- The walking sounds like the answer. No solution to the if you don't like fruits and vegetables I guess the stuff you do like try the lower fat version of it and pick the leaner meats. Like above maybe whole wheat pasta if you like pasta, brown rice instead of white. I know it takes a lot of getting used to.
Good Luck to everyone who is trying to shed those extra pounds.
Myles Andrew
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: NicoleFoxFan on December 12, 2009, 08:07:12 PM
oh, sorry. I just assumed you were because it looks like you have breasts in your picture.
Rice bags.

Which must do a pretty good job, at least in pics because you are not the first who's told me that.

I take it as a compliment.
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