I made a girl a lesbian for me?

[Megan]

Okay I made a fake facebook profile, and then I told this girl she's pretty but like this, "Omg you're so pretty", and then she went all hot for me". However I used a fake profile picture, but the woman I used wasn't even that pretty. I made the profile so I can joke around with it, and this girl had nothing to do with its purpose.

Then the girl was all into me, and telling me all her life goals. And she gave me her phone number, and invited me to a party. Then she told me she's into me, and that she's not gay, but for me. Gawd, I wasn't expecting that, since she's straight, so it was like "wth". So now I am thinking she's attracted to my mind, since I told her some deep stuff about being famous. Then I told her, "no thanks, sorry I am not really an open person", then she said she's attracted to me after I deny her.

I know who she is, and she's like really pretty. But now I want to date her, but I lied to her thinking I was female, and blonde. And I am not sexually attracted to her, but she would be the first "friend" I ever made if that's possible to explain it.

But it's really confusing... my gut tells me to just stop talking to her.

and she message me at 4 in the morning

[Aquarius]

Thats nice Mrs.Charisma congratulations lol

[EveMarie]

I know who she is, and she's like really pretty. But now I want to date her, but I lied to her thinking I was female, and blonde. And I am not sexually attracted to her, but she would be the first "friend" I ever made if that's possible to explain it.

But it's really confusing... my gut tells me to just stop talking to her.

my gut would tell me to come clean, I don't think paying with peoples heads is a healthy thing, unless you think she's playing with yours.

Just my 2¢ and that ain't worth much, Evie

[Megan]

But I wasn't even trying to attract her, which makes it all confusing. I can understand flirting with her, but I was just being me with her, but I never knew she was so like me in terms of being famous and wanting people to love us. And I was jealous of her looks, now I am not because she wants "me". She resembles utter perfection too, like she makes Megan Fox ugly in comparison.

I don't want her to freak out that I pretended to be a girl with her, even though she's going to think "I reveal myself as a lesbian (bisexual) to someone I know!".

So it's better that I just ignore her, then talk to her as myself with my own pictures. She wouldn't know, but if she's into my mind she will be attracted to me even more because I would be as a guy.

[Muffin]

hhmm that's like asking should I lie or tell the truth, well that's your call.
But personally I wouldn't think it would be that great to be known as a lying transsexual.. if that so happens to be the way it eventuates.

[Megan]

yeah that's true

i'm just going to drop contact with her for now, saying i am in a relationship. Then ask her what she looks for in someone, and then a month later invite her as a friend on my real facebook (whenever I make one), and then ask her out through there.

And for real I am into men, but why do I want to date her now? I guess she made me feel a bit straight (since I am still guy as of now).

[Lachlann]

She resembles utter perfection too, like she makes Megan Fox ugly in comparison.

That's not exactly hard to do, imo.

She might be a closet case, or in the experimenting phase. Either way, yeah, let her off gradually.

And for real I am into men, but why do I want to date her now? I guess she made me feel a bit straight (since I am still guy as of now).

Who knows, maybe it's because she made you feel wanted and desirable.

[Megan]

I don't know, she's different. I feel like I am connected to her, like I can relate to her completely without even saying a thing. She did said a lot of things to me about herself, and I bet I am the first person she told me about her being "bisexual". She's just writing long passages about herself to me, so maybe there's something bigger than us doing this? It's like she's equally drawn into me, maybe even more than I am.

And she told me she told me the reason why she likes me because I am unique and my approach to life.

[placeholdername]

I know what you mean about feeling like something else can be causing it -- it's like force of gravity.  Had it with this one girl back when I was in boarding school, don't know how or why it happened but it did and we were inseparable for a while.

Don't really have any advice, didn't work out for me.

[Jay]

since I told her some deep stuff about being famous.

your famous!?

Personally I would come clean.. if you want to meet her then I would. However if it is just emailing then I wouldn't..

Jay

[spacial]

Or she's really messing with you.

Either way, coming out and telling her you're tg can't make things any worse.

But the truth at this stage, might make things a whole lot better.

remembering that 99.9% of all these contacts end in knock-back. So, if that does happen, just get back on your bike and try again.

[Megan]

No I am not famous, but we're just talking about how to get famous, and how to make her famous, and stuff like that. I told her that I am in relationship, and I have to see for a month for it. Expecting her to cancel contact, she responded "you're a person worth waiting for blah blah, you're deep, blah blah".

And I sent her a weird long written comment about the world, so I was expecting to go "Weirdo" on me. But no, she said she's just like me and everything.

and she tells me she's alone, even though she has a lot of friends, because none of her friends return kindness to her and shes give her all. And she isolates herself in writing because she doesn't care about people.

Which I can relate too, but with her she gives this impression of beauty and popularity that I thought she would have.

and she wants to "learn" more about me (which was a weird comment I thought).

[SarahFaceDoom]

You should just stop talking to her, because you're not going to be able to have any kind of relationship with her, most likely.  She thinks you are someone who you aren't.  You can't start a relationship after so blatantly lying to her.

I've met people online who have done what you're doing, and even if I want to keep with them because of their mind, it's just not the same.  You construct this person in your head, and that's the person you like.  The person who created that person in your head though is not the same as the person in your head, so it's just pointless.

You should stop messing around like that, it seems like a lose lose situation pretending to be someone you're not, because at best you're always going to end up in this exact situation, and you're going to hurt them whether you want to or not.

[Megan]

well i told her that i am not interested in her like that....


so i guess it's over.