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What gender are you in your dreams?

Started by thestory, January 26, 2010, 02:24:12 PM

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What gender are you in your dreams?

FTM - Dominantly Male
FTM - Dominantly Female
FTM - Switch Regularly
Androgynous - Dominantly Male
Androgynous - Dominantly Female
Androgynous - Switch Regularly
MTF - Dominantly Male
MTF - Dominantly Female
MTF - Switch Regularly
Other ( explain below )

thestory

I have wondered about this and if it is the same for others.
I am an FTM and have always been male in my dreams since as long as I could remember. Long before I recognized myself as male.
How do you perceive yourselves in your sleep and does it correlate with your identity?
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Osiris

OK so my dreams have changed a bit as time has gone on. A lot of times I'm male, sometimes I'm female and sometimes gender doesn't enter into it at all. But lately I've had more transition dreams where things happen like a penis grows, or I'm a guy but I have breasts. I think as my body gets closer to what I want I have less dreams about me being a genetic guy and more dreams about the body I have now... if that makes any sense.
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Elijah3291

I choose other, because, in my dreams I am sometimes male, but I am usually trans male.. still in a female body, but not female of course. The other night I had a dream where I had a fully functioning penis, but I also still had a vagina.
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Butterfly

I'm often clothed in my dreams & can't see my genitals.  But going by my mind, hair, boobs, & body contour in my dreams, I'm pretty certain I'm female.
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Wolf Man

I ticked other.

Gender I think hasn't really had such a dominating role in my dreams. I'm always just me. Though I can recall some sexual dreams where I am female. Ick.  :eusa_sick: But these occured before I came to know that I was trans.
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Silver

Quote from: No-Name on January 26, 2010, 06:02:53 PM
I ticked other.

Gender I think hasn't really had such a dominating role in my dreams. I'm always just me. Though I can recall some sexual dreams where I am female male.

Edit: Oh yeah, plus some sex-change type dreams where I'm on a table with a surgeon of some sort.
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spacial

When I'm aware of my gender, I'm female but not dominant.

That's why I ticked other.

Addition. Having thought about it, I may have had dreams where I'm male. But I don't recall ever being dominant.

I don't usually remember many dreams, unless they wake me up.

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Pica Pica

I tend to swap around a bit - the key is that I am me in my dreams and gender is not really a part of 'em for the most part.
'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Janet_Girl

For the most part I am female.  Sometimes I am post-op, which makes me happy.  Sometimes I am still pre-op and having to do something male related, but still female.  Those are nightmares.
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Stella Blue

I have many dreams when I am female and some dreams where I am male. I also have weird dreams where I have a male appearance but I know I am supposed to be female and in those dreams people treat me as if I am a female but for some reason my appearance remains male and it is frustrating in the dream.
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V M

I'm not often aware of any gender in my dreams and most of them have nothing to do with gender or sex

Some of them are sexually explicit and sometimes I'm a boy, but most often I'm a girl....Other times I'm both

But mostly my dreams are just weird and I'm 20-30 years younger than I am
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Ryuu

I don't ever really have a gender in my dreams.
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Muffin

Same as Aaron really but I have had dreams were I'm very female and others where I'm male but usually androgynous in some indeterminable way.
Like last nights dream which was highly disturbing. I was in a school cafe and I sat down at a table near a bunch of girls and a minute or so later one of them came and put a plate with two meat balls on it on my table, I got up in disgust and just walked away. Obviously making fun of who I am. Maybe it stems back to a recent time I was at a shop and some girl was awkward with me which kinda bothered me as I've been passing well recently. *shrugs* But yeah mostly androgynous or female.
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Adio

Strangely (or at least to me), in most of my dreams I'm female.  Like, extremely female.  Female bodied, female minded.  I'm usually straight as well.  I should note that the name I get called isn't mine (birth name) nine times out of ten.  It's like I'm a completely different person.

There are some times where I'm just a guy or a transguy, but it doesn't happen as often.  In those dreams I feel more like myself. 
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thestory

I have gotten more interesting answers out of this than I expected.

When I dream I have a guys body I am a new person ( but somehow still me. I just look different) every night. I am just about always male as I mentioned before. I have had experiences as female though, but its rare. When I dream that I am female I am always in my own body as it is now, and I am dreaming up some stressful situation. This only seems to happen when I go to bed worried. I wonder if stress effects anyone else like that when they hit the pillow.

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lisaolsson

I am always female in my dreams. Sometimes post-op, sometimes pre-op and sometimes born female.

This is very confusing when I have my weekly happy dreams about being pregnant, and I am pre-op!
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pamshaw

I now dream mostly as  woman and I am dissapointed when I wake op and find natures mistake.

Pam
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LivingInGrey

I'd have to say most of my dreams are first person, so all I see is my hands arms at most.

There are times there that I get a glimpse of myself in a reflection and I'll "see" what I wish for, but I can't honestly say that what I'm seeing is what I am in my dreams.

There are other times though that I can clearly tell that I am female in my dream or male. Most of the times though, it's just death and destruction / fantasy and depending on my mood that night it could mean lots of blood (in my dream) and waking up in a gasp / flight or fight mindset.

<-- should see someone about that =/
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MaggieB

Even when I dream that I am male bodied, it is still in the context of being in an unnatural gender condition. I don't ever dream that I have a male identity. Those male role dreams are nightmares that I do have once in a while.

Maggie
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rejennyrated

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