I had snake bites, but it looked too feminine on me so I went back to having just one on the side. I have 13 piercings altogether, and 6 tats. My ears look a bit girly, ok...but I've never been called out on my ears but a few times. If your lips are girly..I think snakebites make them look worse. One makes it look better. It doesn't help that I have a gemmed stud in my lip, but oh well. I also have gauges, but small ones. I look pretty andrygynous cause all my piercings have rainbow, black, or gemmed jewelry. LOL.