Welcome to Susan's, Douggie.

There's a lot of good information and good people here. Each of our stories is unique but we have a lot in common. Settle in, pull up a keyboard, and explore.
Be sure to look under the Announcements heading. There you will find the rules we live by in this little world of ours: "Site Terms of Service and Rules to Live By", "Standard Terms and Definitions", and "Post Ranks". Look through the other stuff there, too, like "Age and the Forums".
I've had trouble with labels, too. Perhaps all of us who don't fit neatly into one box or another do. And don't get me started on shopping!

Happy exploring.

- Kate