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Started by Jester, February 23, 2010, 06:12:36 PM

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Radar

Good luck. :) You'll do fine.
"In this one of many possible worlds, all for the best, or some bizarre test?
It is what it is—and whatever.
Time is still the infinite jest."
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Jester

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Alright.  That went really well if you ask me.  It was an interview, not an actual counseling session, but I still feel as though progress was made.

She rightly assessed that I have a real problem with other people, and that I have too narrow a career field.  Apparently, for English majors, there are options other than "teacher" "grad school" and "Fast food."  She asked some questions concerning my gender identity stuff like if I feel better when I'm dressed, whether or not I have transition planned, she noticed I used the term "transgendered" for the entire interview and randomly inserted a "transsexual" in there during the proceedings.

She, as I already had, came to the conclusion that I need to get established in my field with some career and financial stability before I can properly consider transition.  She, the counsellor, also used the words "You need to get the hell out of this province."

I like being right about things like how much this place sucks ass.

I'm on the waiting list for actual counseling because I'm not considering suicide, basically.  Apparently a lot of people use these counseling services.

I have an appointment for the career counseling services on the 15th, where they're going to basically combine my degree and the results of three questionnaires to determine what kind of job I am both qualified for and suited to.

I feel as though I have done the right thing.  I never feel like I've done the right thing.
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Ellieka

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Hun, it sounds to me like you got a good head on your shoulders. Today was a huge step in the right direction and I'm proud of you. I wish I had been half as intuitive as you are at that age.

You did indeed do the right thing.

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K8

Good for you!  It sounds like you made wonderful progress toward getting your life on track.

I remember telling my therapist once that I had to learn to be a whole person before I could learn to be a woman.  That worked well for me, and perhaps that is a little of what your counsellor was telling you today.

Go, girl! :eusa_dance:

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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Jester

Life rocks right now.... now to get started on those two papers and the assloads of reading for the work....

To quote Warcraft 1, 2, and 3 "Work work work."
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Ellieka

Quote from: Jester on March 03, 2010, 10:44:55 AM
To quote Warcraft 1, 2, and 3 "Work work work."

"help, help! I'm being oppressed!"  :laugh:

Warcraft fan here.
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Jester

"I'm not dead!"
"Yes you are!"
"No I'm not"
"Yes, well, you will be soon."
"Actually I'm getting better."

Hehehehe.....
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Ellieka

LOL! You and me are going to get along just find Jester.  :laugh: Do you play WoW?
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Jester

I used to.  Now I don't even remember what my account's called so that I can download it.  I have one of those free memberships on DnD Online though.
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placeholdername

QuoteApparently, for English majors, there are options other than "teacher" "grad school" and "Fast food."

You forgot "living in a cardboard box" :).  I'm an english major too, so I'm in the same boat...

Going to the school counseling service was definitely a good thing -- it definitely helped me when I did it, although I eventually moved on to a gender therapist covered by my (mandatory) student health insurance.
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tekla

Why would someone who has a real problem with other people even consider a teaching job in the first place?  Isn't that considered a real 'people person' kind of job in from the get-go?
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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elementalincognitus

Quote from: Ketsy on March 05, 2010, 01:30:59 PM
You forgot "living in a cardboard box" :).  I'm an english major too, so I'm in the same boat...

Going to the school counseling service was definitely a good thing -- it definitely helped me when I did it, although I eventually moved on to a gender therapist covered by my (mandatory) student health insurance.

hey those are the job prospects for anthro majors too! well, actually, we're qualified to dig perfectly square ditches too... im hoping that i will be able to get a start on transition before a career though, maybe because our gender presentation is less important in jobs for us??  jester, ideally we could choose our careers irrespective of our gender circumstance... but in reality it has to be factored in- hope you find your niche quicker than me!
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Jester

You can forgo the people skills as long as you have a passion for keeping people from being stupid.  And lord do we need people to educate the ignorant masses.
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