Hair removal products are not meant for male facial hair. That hair is of a different type than body hair or female facial hair (or scalp hair).
Waxing will cause problems, including making electrolysis much more difficult once you get around to that. Same with plucking. (The average male has a huge number of hairs on his face. I don't remember the number, but it is in the tens of thousands. I don't think you can pluck that many anyway.)
Laser can work well if you have dark hair and light skin.
If you can't afford electrolysis, the only option that I know of is shaving as closely as possible and a foundation that will cover the shadow. Lots of girls do that.
I'm sorry, but those are the facts of life as far as I know.
- Kate