A bit of back story before I hit on today updated and why the title says what it does. I posted a while back asking questions about anyone who had dealt with not great results after surgery. Or even having a doctor change the game plan once the patient (you) were out.
So I had surgery supposedly DI in December, during my recovery I noticed that the swelling was much much more then it should have been. Calling the doctor only had her stating that I was still early in and much of the current would look better in a couple of months time. This did not happen, along with wrinkles and saggy boxed lower flaps not breasts but fat and skin left over remained. Originally I was told during recovery that if I lost more weight this would all go away. That tune changed once the doctor looked at my chest four months post op. She winced apologized and stated that she had thought because of the muscle I had on my chest and the elastic pull of my skin she had assumed that key whole would be okay.
I was a small C before the first surgery went to a bare A, with exercise more of the fat on my chest pushed out giving me the appearance of double smiles on my chest. Only when I would swell was it noticed by others. Me on the other hand hated taking my shirt off. I still seen boobs just flattened ones with a small amount inside. Anyway we had planned on having a in office revision today, this would have been fine if for the fact that me laying down is what she had been basing my chest appearance on. Once one side was done she had me sit up and again I had way less and no more of the deep wrinkles of pulled together skin but the sag was still there.
She asked my girl friend and I to hold on and she was going to talk to the surgery clinic, after a bit she came back and said that she wanted to do more there. So Monday I will be having surgery again to destroy hopefully completely the natural curve that breasts have. I am sure she used a different way to describe this. In the beginning when I kept stating that my chest is not what I had wanted she said revisions in office is all I need. To do anything more would cost me the surgery fee again not for her but the clinic.
Monday though she said she would be charged and not me because she had not done what she had promised while I had kept my end of the bargain of losing more weight. Which I am steady at trying to do not just because of this or what she said but because of how much healthier it would make me.
If I could do this all over again, I think I would have waited longer for the extra 3k that I would have needed for travel and recovery fees then to stay in state. For me it was not about the scars but having the fat bags on my chest completely removed. Having a doctor tell me what is left is because I'm over weight was ... I do not know how to say how this makes me feel. Anyway that is my current update on my chest surgery...(ies)
