I'm new here

[RAY]

I new so hopefully this gets posted in introductions properly. This not easy for me to even talk to friends about being transgender or transsexual. So please be patient with me. Not sure I want to be male anymore.Since my childhood I  never seem fully male in mind and body. Living as a male can be at times very stressful. Everyone wants you to handle all the tasks or dangers since you are a male. I just trying to sort out what I am.

[Sandy]

Welcome to Susan's!

I'm sure Janet or K8 will be along in a bit to give you the official welcome.  But let me be the first to say HI!

Your feelings are not unusual.  Many of us have had those very feelings.  Know that you are among friends here.  You can talk about anything you like and you will not be judged.

Check out the various forums and check the TOS.

Feel free to ask any question you may have.  We'll be happy to give you information.  Also we have a very complete wiki and reference library.

Hi!

-Sandy

[K8]

Welcome to Susan's, Ray. 

There's a lot of good information and good people here.  Each of our stories is unique but we have a lot in common.  Settle in, pull up a keyboard, and explore.

Be sure to look under the Announcements heading.  There you will find the rules we live by in this little world of ours:

• Site Terms of Service and rules to live by
  
• Standard Terms and Definitions
  
• Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)
  

Look through the other stuff there, too.

Some people like being male, but they're men.  For the rest of us, being male can be a real drag.  No need to be shy here – there are many on this forum who have been or currently are where you are.  Look around and join in.

Happy exploring.

- Kate

[Janet_Girl]

Hi Ray,

Welcome to our little family. Over 4500 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister.

And be sure to check out the links Kate mentioned.

Hugs and Love,
Janet

[no_id]

Hey Ray, welcome to the club. Hope you'll find some answers 'round here. Never any haste to figure out who (or what) you are. TC 

[gennee]

Welcome to the site, Ray.

Gennee

[Scribbled101]

Welcome to the site mate, hope you'll end up finding this place a good enough resource to keep coming back. :3

[Hurtfulsplash]

Sometimes its easier to talk to strangers at first, I hope you find answers and support here.

[Farm Boy]

Hi Ray!  Welcome to the site!

Don't worry about feeling nervous or uncomfortable; that's normal.  Just take your time. 

Sometimes its easier to talk to strangers at first.

This is true!  For me, at least.