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Started by Nikolai James, April 26, 2010, 08:29:35 PM

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Nikolai James

Just thought I'd properly introduce myself before I started posting around here. The name's Nick. I've had the feeling of my body "not matching" ever since I can remember and I started actively doing something about it at around 16. It was easier to handle two years ago with a girlfriend. Eighteen with a boyfriend now, so I've since stopped binding/presenting as male. I'm "out" to my family, though it's not necessarily acknowledged, and also to my boyfriend. That's the larger part of why I decided to join the forum.

In terms of transitioning I'm not too sure what I'd like to do. I have crossdressed before and passed, and I know I would be happy living as male. I've considered hormone therapy and top surgery, as well as a legal name change (both my birth name and male name are chosen by my parents oddly enough). Bottom surgery is something I'm not too keen on and would look at once I got to that point after hormone therapy/chest reconstruction/etc. and would decide upon then.
Like I mentioned though, I'm not active with any of this right now. My boyfriend is understanding and even accepting of my gender issues but not keen on me doing something about it, understandably so. So it's tricky.

I've lurked around before so I figured it's about time I joined. That said, I look forward to becoming part of the community and getting to know everybody! :)
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cynthialee

Eventualy one of the mods or admins will post the rules. You should check them out.
Welcome aboard. It is a good crew around here lots of people to bounce ideas off. You have alot of active FTM peers around here also so that should be helpful.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Nikolai James

Thank you for the welcome! :) I'm looking at the rules and FAQ right now.
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Janet_Girl

Hi Nikolai , :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 4600 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. :icon_hug:

And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )

Hugs and Love,
Janet
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Farm Boy

Hey there, nice to meet you, Nick!  Welcome aboard!
Started T - Sept. 19, 2012
Top surgery - Jan. 16, 2017
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Silver

Welcome. If you need help/advice/sympathy/ideas, feel free to ask. It is a support site (with enough "nice people.")
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