Not interested in sex

[justme19]

Sorry for the topic =)

I have like 0 interest in sex or doing anything sexual with other people. This is very unual I think for my age. I think it's because I don't really want to be seen that way by anybody while im in male mode.

Anybody else ever felt the same?

[Janet_Girl]

Ha.  I have not had an interest in sex for the last ten years, and I am 56.  I do like to flirt, but it is just harmless fun.

[Sage Fallon]

I've felt that way a lot since I started on hormones. Before I guess the unwanted desire for it was there, but I never could bring myself to. I have done it since starting hormones, but given what I have now it's not that great to me.

[confused]

well i never had a strong sexual desire , to me sex has been always a duty , like something i should be wanting , i never knew why , then i found out that thinking you are the girl is a lot better while that . and depression takes my sex libido totally away , and since i get depressed like a lot i kinda mostly don't want sex , and hormones and/or T-blockers also has that effect
i figured ..maybe all that sexual mess i'm having is due to my GD

[HayleyVera]

Sorry for the topic =)

I have like 0 interest in sex or doing anything sexual with other people. This is very unual I think for my age. I think it's because I don't really want to be seen that way by anybody while im in male mode.

Anybody else ever felt the same?

I also feel the same way. I have no interest in doing anything sexual with another person until I am in the correct body.

[cynthialee]

I have a very low sex drive. Could take it or leave it most the time. Also having body issues with curent equipment configuration makes sex less than desireable most days. However...
When Sevan actualy seduces me I find myself wondering why I was so opposed to sex. lol

[cerealnmuffin]

You are not alone Justme.  I have next to no interest and actually think of it as mundane and not worth much thought.  Being asexual, most people are quick to say that it just means I havent had "good" sex.  I have had sex here and there with people that I had feelings for (mainly just want to cuddle or be held).  I just don't have sexual urge.... maybe 10 minutes out of every few months, but as quick as that feeling arrives it disappears almost immediately.

Even in my teen years, people thought I was weird because I had no sex drive.  Part of this was being perceived as the wrong gender, but I had also been tested and all throughout my puberty, my testosterone levels were really low, almost in the girl range which can explain why i didnt masculinize, develop very noticeable secondary male sex traits.

[AmySmiles]

I had about zero sex drive all through high school and college.  I figured I was probably weird because when I did have a girlfriend for a while, she wanted sex all the time and I was the one that had to be in the mood   Guess that kinda fits though!

[Pippa]

To misquote Boy George, "I'd rather have a cup of tea".  Although he was more PR than substance.   

I have never had a strong desire for sex of any kind.

[MillieB]

It's always been a little different for me, while I think that I have a relatively high sex drive, in terms of desire, the actual act has always left me feeling that it just wasn't right. Sex with women just felt wrong and weird, so I tried sex with guys, which also felt wrong and weird (although less so). In the end I just gave up (In my early 20s) I'm hoping that things will be be better when I have the body to match my feelings.

[rejennyrated]

Oh well - I guess I am the odd one out here. It probably helps to be postop but I am very sexual indeed.

I am very faithful but I get really stroppy if Alison keeps me short... and if I was suddenly single again it would be a complete 50/50 chance as to whether my new partner would be male of female - the only thing absolutely NOT in question is that there would be a partner.

[Janet_Girl]

Now if we are talking post-op, then that is different.  My GF Peggy always jokes that when I get SRS I will become the SL*T of Fairview.  Well Yeah.  A lot of time to make up for. 

And there is a truck stop just down the road.  So many truckers, so little time.

[Rock_chick]

hmmm sex...I have a fairly high sex drive, tho what I really enjoy is the kissing, cuddling and intimacy, the actual act of sex is a little bit weird for me, I get super detached and it's very much a case of my enjoyment is 100% tied up with how she's enjoying it. I have on occasion when it's been reallllllllllly boring, done a quick O! face  rolled over and pretended to go to sleep because I felt like some kind of meat based vibrator.

Lord alone knows what I'll be like when I'm post op, but i strongly suspect it'll be lots of fun.