so what does make you feel happy , or changes your mood

[Cindy]

ye chocolate is good, bitterest is bestest.

Maybe licking chocolate off your lover

[confused]

Maybe licking chocolate off your lover

for me only if they are really really clean

like most my mood is changed by music (well most of the time to the worst not the best) other than that i got nothing , drinking could go both ways so it counts as a risky mood changer.  sometimes just watching some funny show , chatting with friends helps , sometimes just pretending to be happy fixes your mood after a while , and as laura said , the idea of life will be over someday makes me able to continue with no breakdowns

[Metamorph]

music without a doubt. when im particularly down i get frustrated by tv films etc but as long as my mp3 player is at hand i can feel better listening to lots of early - mid 90's stuff that i grew up with.

[cynthialee]

A number of you have mentioned sex. for me that will change my mood but not in any positive way.

I have figured out how to lie to my senses and experiance sex as I want to experiance it. Not a perfect fix but it works well until I get a surgical fix.
I try and focus on the emotional and romantic aspects and just experiance the sex just slightly disassociated while running the scene through my mind the way it should be going were the world a more perfect place.

[LordKAT]

I have figured out how to lie to my senses and experiance sex as I want to experiance it. Not a perfect fix but it works well until I get a surgical fix.
I try and focus on the emotional and romantic aspects and just experiance the sex just slightly disassociated while running the scene through my mind the way it should be going were the world a more perfect place.

that takes finding a partner who can deal with you in the first place and somehow feeling sex instead of doing a sort of out of body thing which is the only way I have been able to do it.

[BunnyBee]

... and sunshine

[Hurtfulsplash]

Good point about watching a funny show, Scrubs cheers me up every time.

[Jam]

Music. My best friend. And Friends (TV Show). After all these years it never fails to make me laugh and cheer me up.

aw no now i've got to say you cheer me up as well, darn 

I can't say im really bothered about sex...i like it an all but if i had to stop having it for the rest of my life i wouldn't exactly cry. 

I like a nice cuppa tea and my friend Addison's little ginger cat to curl up next to me. If im really bad i like to sleep...cuddles also work wonders, im very soft to hugs.

[confused]

Good point about watching a funny show, Scrubs cheers me up every time.

i love that show it's my #1 fav

[LordKAT]

I used to talk to my dog, I miss her. She knew a lot of secrets, mine and my kids's

[confused]

I used to talk to my dog, I miss her. She knew a lot of secrets, mine and my kids's

i used to do this with my cat ,weirdly she used to have that look when i talk to her as if she understands what i was saying , i guess she somehow sensed the emotion itself =\

another thing i remembered today is day dreaming , whenever things get too difficult to deal with just now , i close my eyes , and "disconnect" from the world and start wild meaningless daydreaming heh , like today i was daydreaming that i could log into any kind of wireless network with my brain *pfff* eventually someone hacked into my brain!!
the bad thing about it is it takes me in a circle of thoughts ,not a straight line .which means that my thoughts always take me back to the original problem somehow

[LordKAT]

Sometimes it circles back but leaves you with a new perspective.

[confused]

Sometimes it circles back but leaves you with a new perspective.

true , i guess that's why i try to disconnect for a while

[LaPapito]

"A number of you have mentioned sex. for me that will change my mood but not in any positive way..." "LordKat"

Ok/ including me-self I counted 3 people who said sex was a mood change fer them...the others said either reading, with music being the number one mood change und friends or good company following...making sex a 3:40 ratio or 7 1/2%...that's pretty low I would say...

Most of the time however...if I am feeling blue [which really ISN"T that often] I will write...und not necessarily "blue" stuff either...I am an optimist und believe that the glass is @times 1/2 full rather than being 1/2 empty...thus projecting some of me greatest  work...of which I am about to publish....

[LordKAT]

No matter the ratio, it was a number ( 3 apparently) that said it.