-.- One of my younger siblings was one of those children that always asked: "is that a boy or a girl" or "are you a boy or a girl". I didn't grasp the difference between gender as a child. My mom would reply: "go ask them" and my sibling -most of the time- would. Which i tried to discourage in a few different ways. I'd also like to add the fact that my relationship with her since i have come out has been almost depleted, I visit family, she comes to the door and goes "HEEEEEEY <insert old name being screamed at me here>!!!!" and i quietly correct her "Nat". I go inside and ask how everyone is and i get a lot of cold shoulders, but my family has always been like that so i get myself a drink and try to communicate to someone. Generally I end up going to the bathroom where the sibling in question who is 16!, follows me and gives me ->-bleeped-<- about how i'm their "big SISTER", and just because i'm "ugly" or "fat" or something else Ridiculous she makes up, like liking a certain movie, doesn't make me "allowed to pretend to be a boy". I have tried talking to her nicely and beginning to become impatient, so i visit even less than before. She calls or msg's me sometimes with things like: "My first BF's name was kinda like Nat so your just copying him because maybe your incestuous! YOUR SO GROSS AND (etc etc)"
Oh well, can't win them all, i'll be patient.
-Nat
