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Started by katzeekatz, May 21, 2010, 05:05:25 PM

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katzeekatz

So...Like in the world of katzeekatz goes a tad bit like so,

I'm a transsexual, but I don't want a complete sex change. I've also always wanted a career in the military which has a lot to do with that decision.

Ever since I can remember, even before I knew exactly what it was, I've wanted to get a reduction and a hysterectomy. Problem is I don't have per-existing condition that would justify the procedure and I'm not even 20 yet (so I'm relatively sure no doctor would be willing to perform it.)

I'm also a bit paranoid at my options when I'm looking to go into the military, I'm utterly terrified of seeking help because I don't want it to interfere with getting into the military. Both issues are subjects of sources great inner turmoil to me.  :icon_ashamed:

I'm not sure what exactly my options are at this point and am just hoping someone has an idea of what I might be able to do or has some experience that can relate to it. I was searching around on the net looking for information that might help and I consequently stumbled upon this website.  :D
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Janet_Girl

Hi Katzeekatz, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 4800 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

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Nathan.

Welcome to Susans  :)
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gennee

Hi Katzeekatz and welcome to the forums.

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kyril

Welcome!

If it's OK to give a bit of response in this thread:
If you're certain that you want to join the military, then do not get any surgeries done. I think breast reductions would be fine but can't guarantee it; hystos are serious enough that you'd probably have to apply for a waiver.

Once you're in the military, it will be more difficult for you to get the treatment you want, but somewhat less likely that it will prevent you having a career if you do manage to get it. Once they've invested the time and money in training you they're reluctant to let you go. Unless, that is, you're gay.

Which brings me to another point: if you like women, you're gay as far as the military is concerned. Which means you either have to be celibate or live a double life at least until DADT is fully repealed. And there's still no guarantee that it will be repealed, or if it is, that it will come with a non-discrimination policy.

And another point to consider is that if you have any gender dysphoria in addition to your physical sex dysphoria, it could be worsened by the fact that so many aspects of military life are controlled by your gender. If you have problems being socially sorted into the "females" category, you may have problems in the military. I did. You may not necessarily be sure how you'll feel until you try it.

Luckily, though, you don't have to commit to a 20-year career right away - you can start with 4 or 5 and see how things go :)


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