The three dilators probably use up a lot of gel. At five weeks I've used only six 2 oz tubes of Surgilube (bought a case of 12). I only use one dilator a session except when I was stepping up from one size to the next – kind of sneaking up on the next larger size.
With the larger dilator I've found I need more gel than with the skinny ones. If it binds a little as I'm inserting it, I back it out a little (half inch or inch?), give it a little wiggle, and then try again. That works pretty well.
Also, the nurse said to try gently rotating the dilator 360º once it's in there all the way. I do that slowly. It spreads the gel around and feels like it loosens things up a bit. Before I did that I would have trouble pulling the stupid thing out because the tip was quite dry. Now I can just give it a wiggle and it eases out.
But we're all a bit different – in our approaches and in what seems to work for us.
- Kate