Since I've posted on this forum. It sucks, because I used to come here everyday. A lot of stuff has been happening with me to prevent spending time for myself on the computer all too much. Family deaths, illnesses and marital problems (Which I'm working on) to name a few.
The reason I'm posting now is because I had such a wonderful experience last night that I just had to talk (type?) about it!
So, my wife has been questioning her sexuality for awhile now, trying to decide whether or not she can wait for me (No I still haven't started transition, I was waiting on her to make a decision because she was all "Yes, No, yes, maybe, I don't know" on what she wanted.) or if she was going to leave me for a "real" woman. She was looking at things the wrong way though, and we've been working things out the best we can. It is going alright for now I think. Anyway she wanted to know if we could go out somewhere and do something, so she asked her father if there were any cool places to go.
Turns out there's a Gay/Lesbian/Trans Night Club not but 2 min down the road from where we live! Now I've never been to a Nightclub in my life. The closest thing would be the strip club, but the patrons don't dance there, the strippers do! Anyway she figured it would be a good way to test how she feels about women because she's still not entirely sure (she says.) So we got dressed (I wore this nice little black lace t-shirt thingy, with an attached black tank underneath. and a knee length skirt, and some high heeled ankle boots!) Picked up her friend, and went. I was fully intending on sitting there, watching everyone else because I can't dance, shouldn't drink (since I'm the only one who can drive.) and figured, the only people who would be interested in me, would be well... No one. (Gay guys don't want a trans, Lesbians certainly wouldn't be interested in a pre-op trans... and I didn't see any other trans people there [mind you there may have been I just didn't notice]) So I had a single shot (an orgasm.) Wife went onto the dance floor with her friend, and yet I still sat there, determined to be bored out of my mind. "This isn't my kinda scene" I thought to myself.
Then Erica and her friend went outside for a smoke. Not but two seconds later this (Kinda cute) gay guy and his partner come over to sit with me. Offer me a drink, and tell me I shouldn't be sitting alone. "Do you smoke?" he asked.
"No"
"Nothing?"
"Nothing."
"Not even weed?"
"Ok maybe a little."
"Alright, come on bitch, we're getting high. I mean bitch in the most loving terms by the way."
So next thing I know, I'm being lead into the back section outside the club by the hand. On the way, a few girls complement my hair, one stops me to tell me "You are absolutely gorgeous!" The guy... Matt I think, introduces me to all his friends as "Hey girls, this is my new Bitch, I forgot her name already." He proceeds to tell me I'm not drunk enough and gives me a rum and coke!
A few moments later this lovely chick comes and sits beside me. "Hi, I'm <insert name I've forgotten here> what's your name?"
"Adrian."
"Well Adrian, you look shy is this your first time here?"
"Yes"
"Why?"
"I haven't been out much."
"Your not out?"
"Not entirely."
"Not even to your family."
"What's left of it yes."
"Well, I'm straight as a board. I'm here as my friend's wing-man as it's her first time to. See her over there? That's Jess, and she's seriously interested in you, so if you don't mind I'm going to bring her over and introduce you alright?"
Seriously. A lesbian female, interested... in me?! We talked until I was dragged inside to dance with her. I warned her I sucked. She said she did to. We danced for a bit... if you can call having a leg shoved between yours while she knee humps you dancing! It wasn't long until she told me she was having fun, but she hates dancing and would I like to play pool. Be warned. She was going to kick my ass. So we played pool together. At one point I was bent over to make my shot, when someone coming from the bathrooms decided it would be a good idea to pinch my ass. I jumped... startled, then turned expecting to see either the chick I was playing pool with, or my wife. Instead, a gorgeous lesbian in this purple dress was standing there with a big smile on her face. She leaned in close to say "I just want you to know, you are the cutest thing I have ever seen!" then she just bounced away. Didn't see her again for the rest of the night, which I spent with Jess mostly. I did dance with my wife and her friend later. Jess cut in though.
I still may not be able to dance worth ->-bleeped-<-, but I guess it doesn't matter when everyone is drunk! I spent the rest of my night pretty much the same way until it was time to leave. Where upon Jess asked if I would come back tomorrow. Says that Saturdays are supposed to be better or whatever, but she would be there if I was.
It may be silly to be so excited about stuff like this, but I had so much fun. Erica did to, but I can tell you I am so happy I came home with the most beautiful woman there. My loving wife. Yea it seems, everything can be worked out as long as you have fun together.
