How do you approach your parents if they've been scared of this

[justsomekid1]

since I was born?


I don't like gender so much it divides everything. I find myself having bffs that are girls and we're best friends but I don't want anything to do with a guy or even be delicate like the female gender is. I don't think like one even though I do some feminine activity. I keep noticing as I've gotten older I tend to have more feminine features. I don't really want to change that. I know sooner or later my parents are going to take me to the doctor and want them to 'fix' me so that I look moreso like a man even though I don't. I like myself for who I am but how can I put it where they won't freak out?

[pebbles]

I originally put this as a reply to something else you said but it applies here more so I moved my post.

I know your just a kid thus aren't confrontational. But if I was in your position I would pretty ticked off at your parents.

Unlike most Transsexuals you kid are happy with your body. And that's actually the most enviable trait you possess even more than all of your feminine appearance.

Your parents have more of a problem with your body than you do that's just really quite disturbing because that should never be the case, Forcing babies to have Sex change operations is really very screwed up and should be illegal.

Tell them that next time... Your not a normal boy, But you are okay with that and you just wanna do the things you do and they should stop pressuring you to have irreversible surgeries or to act like someone you aren't.

As for you, you shouldn't ever feel you have to appeal to there ideas of what normal is to make them happy it's your body in the end and you have to live with it, not them.

[justsomekid1]

I originally put this as a reply to something else you said but it applies here more so I moved my post.

I know your just a kid thus aren't confrontational. But if I was in your position I would pretty ticked off at your parents.

Unlike most Transsexuals you kid are happy with your body. And that's actually the most enviable trait you possess even more than all of your feminine appearance.

Your parents have more of a problem with your body than you do that's just really quite disturbing because that should never be the case, Forcing babies to have Sex change operations is really very screwed up and should be illegal.

Tell them that next time... Your not a normal boy, But you are okay with that and you just wanna do the things you do and they should stop pressuring you to have irreversible surgeries or to act like someone you aren't.

As for you, you shouldn't ever feel you have to appeal to there ideas of what normal is to make them happy it's your body in the end and you have to live with it, not them.

thanx Ididn't have a sex change though I was born both female and male