Mini-PMS

[Crow]

To go with the mini-happies, in case you have a mini that isn't so happy.

(The place I got this idea from calls this "mini-rants", but our big-rant board is called the PMS board here, so I figured I'd keep with the theme.)


To start us off with a rant of my own: It appears I'm not going to get a haircut this weekend. I've been tring for almost a month, now, but my mom never has time to take me. D8

[LordKAT]

A guy called that I worked with and asked if I wanted to hang out. He and his background buddies were using my female name. They were also drunk. Needless to say I did not go. The guy calling doesn't much like me which raises my hackles at that kind of call.

[Crow]

Literal-PMS = Do not want.

I would say I want to rip my insides out, but they seem to be doing a fine job of that all of their own accord.

(I want to draw, but my everything hurts too much and my hands are shaky when I hurt. Grraaar.)

[Ruben]

Literal-PMS = Do not want.

I would say I want to rip my insides out, but they seem to be doing a fine job of that all of their own accord.

(I want to draw, but my everything hurts too much and my hands are shaky when I hurt. Grraaar.)

This.

Just come off my own, and I'm making it my last for a LONG time. Thank god birth control can be run together to stop them. =_=

[Crow]

The brother-creature seems to be making a point of saying "Whoooooooa" every time he sees my hair spiked. EVERY. TIME. It's a little hard to avoid.

This is not, mind you, a "Whoa, that's awesome," it's a "Whoa, how could you do something so shocking and horrible to your head." OTL

You would think he would know better, after all the times he's come to complain to me about our dad insulting his hair, but I guess not.

[V M]

The brother-creature seems to be making a point of saying "Whoooooooa" every time he sees my hair spiked. EVERY. TIME. It's a little hard to avoid.

This is not, mind you, a "Whoa, that's awesome," it's a "Whoa, how could you do something so shocking and horrible to your head." OTL

You would think he would know better, after all the times he's come to complain to me about our dad insulting his hair, but I guess not.

Is he a younger or older brother-creature? Either way he's probably just taking out his anxiety in regards to his own hair on you

[Crow]

Younger brother-creature. He's 16.

...and for whatever reason, he gets really freaked out about the very prospect of faux hawks, whether it's on him or me, so I guess that much I shouldn't take to personally. (The one time he tried a faux hawk, his classmates all called him gay and our dad made a comment about the "extreme hairstyles kids wear these days," so I guess his aversion is justified... at least his aversion to having them on his own head.)

But my mom and brother have lately been doing this bizzare thing where everything that's ever bothered them about me now relates back to my gender, and everything that can possibly be related to my gender (regardless of whether it bothered them before) suddenly bothers them. I'm about at wits end with this rediculous routine, which my hair seems to be the new focus of. I almost want to just wear a hat whenever I'm around my family so they leave me alooooone.

[V M]

Oh, so he's overtly acting out based on the already displayed disapproval exhibited by the folks?

So put on your best Al Pacino, Robert Di Nero, Clint Eastwood, Jack Nicholson and jokingly ask him...

"So what's up with your do... Porkchop?"

In other words, you don't need to be particularly mean, but let him know that you can stand up for yourself and he's not gettin' to you with that crap

[LordKAT]

Depressing when you walk into a restaurant and a person says they don't have a bathroom for you so you have to leave. It only has 2 single stall restrooms, one mens one ladies. I had gone there to take a lady for breakfast who I only met last night. (A work trainee, nothing special)  Then the waitress says, "Anything to drink, Ladies?"  Next trip the waitress stopped herself from using any pronouns, maybe it was my lightly furry face, maybe not.  Only 17 months to go and I am outa here.

[FairyGirl]

Depressing when you walk into a restaurant and a person says they don't have a bathroom for you so you have to leave. It only has 2 single stall restrooms, one mens one ladies. I had gone there to take a lady for breakfast who I only met last night. (A work trainee, nothing special)  Then the waitress says, "Anything to drink, Ladies?"  Next trip the waitress stopped herself from using any pronouns, maybe it was my lightly furry face, maybe not.  Only 17 months to go and I am outa here.

aww (can't have a thread like this without some hugs)

[Crow]

Dying bug in sink. Too neurotic to go anywhere near bathroom as a result. Do not enjoy death, even when the dying creature in question literally has no brain and is physically incapable of feeling pain.

*curls up in a curner and shudders*

;o;

[confused]

i can convince my mind of anything , it's like i have a special ability to brainwash myself , well at least temporarily ,like an aspirin pill
but still , i'll have to face the reality soon , i can't just stay inside hiding forever . sooner or later i'll have to face that pile of trouble at hand , or the consequences will come to me
not knowing what to do , not having anyone that can help even with advice , i feel so lost. i wish my dad was around , i'd tell him everything and he'd know what to do
add to that ,too many brainwashing myself through the years that i forgot who i am . i don't know who i am anymore

[V M]

People that purposely use the wrong gender pronouns because they just happen to know your birth gender 

And they do it because they know it pisses you off