I can see where people are coming from about being offended but that adds to the point no one can see expression in typed words on a forum. So whatever you meant, it's the past now. XP I'm personally not one to hold grudges nor am I one to worry. I mean of course I too was a little little bit offended as my mom is also disabled but *points to above statements*, it's in the past now.
That's alright how you feel, sure some of us won't agree with it but you joined this community for many reasons and some of those may include support or friendship. Whatever they may be, we're still here for you, at least I am.
I'm a lover not a fighter lol. I'm sure there are beliefs in all of us that someone out there or even on here may not approve but that is not the point of this website. So whatever happened on this forum, don't worry about it, life moves on and you shouldn't be afraid to post. Just be careful (which is something everyone should do on any forum lol).
In order to get that male body you want, there's steps you have to take. Heck, I need to take them too. XP You have to talk to at least one counselor, who will usually be a normal one that will then refer you to one that helps people like us. After time of counseling, he/she will refer you to an endocrine doctor (endocrine being your hormones). After that, you will be prescribed testosterone treatments. Now, facial hair depends on your genetics. Some people, due to genes, simply won't grow the hair whereas I know I will. Sad to say, it's a high chance so you'll prob just have to shave. But if you relax, be yourself, and do it the right way, then you'll get the body you want faster than you'd ever thought. Rushing and stressing and hating could lead you down the wrong path. Not that I'm preaching or anything, I've just heard horror stories and I never want to see that happen again. XP
ANYWAYS, back to the topic of this post! Yeah I understand where you're coming from. But no one is gonna physically touch you unless its like an accidental bump or something. Don't worry about. I'm like you, I have many fears but you know what, its not just the two of us. And I think this is because of how we're used to the ladies washrooms - the atmosphere doesn't feel very good there. >.< So, we just have to be able to take that step in. And like I said before, I'm sure it'll be fine and we'll laugh at ourselves about how stressed we were. Plus, it's in public, no matter what the area there is always someone around. Only take the step when you know you're ready. Maybe, bring a friend to wait outside the washroom for you (because taking them in is weird).
Whatever your views and beliefs are, you are you and no one can change that. You're also a growing individual in this community so you should be accepted no matter what (that is so long as you don't directly hate on anyone O_O ). I dunno, maybe I'm just too chill because it takes a lot to get me angry or truly insulted but welcome to the family.
