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Started by Joe., September 03, 2013, 08:33:43 PM

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Joe.

All of my clothes are male and I'm comfortable with my clothing style. However, this is just my clothing for every day and I don't have any 'going out smart clothes'. I'm going to be starting university and going to a lot more bars, clubs and pubs. What do I wear?? I bought 2 shirts that can be worn smart - e.g. buttoned up sleeves down, maybe with a tie or something - or more smart casual - e.g. sleeves rolled up, a few buttons open with a t shirt underneath. Will these be ok? I love how they look on, but can I wear them with jeans? Do I have to wear trousers to these type of events or will jeans be ok, either black or blue? I've never done smart clothes before really aand always stuck to a t shirt and jeans at family occasions etc. I've never really been to a bar before so I don't know what the dress code is for guys. If anybody can help me with this I would really appreciate it lol. I think the shirts are good, but I don't know how to wear them to look good. I can upload a photo of the shirts if that would help. Thanks guys!
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musicofthenight

One of the things I like about male style (at least here, Northeast US) is that there isn't, officially, a dress code for men beyond "no shirt, no shoes, no service."

Okay, yes, there are a few places that enforce a dress code, but they're not your usual bar and probably not appropriate for discussion here.

So, you get to dress the way you want to.  My thoughts follow.


Eh, I wouldn't wear a tie to a bar unless I was going for the "salaryman after work" look.  Which I would only do being a salaryman leaving work.

Yes you can wear a button-down shirt with jeans.  I think it looks best if the hem is squared off and not under something else - the official name for this style of shirt layered under a sweater or jacket is "crotch bib" and it's just messy.

Few buttons open is a-okay.  Honestly it looks best without an undershirt, but that might not be practical if you bind.
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FTMDiaries

Your shirts sound fine, and most places would be more than happy with them. I've seen that 'no shoes, no shirt, no service' thing in various countries but it isn't a major thing in the UK because our climate doesn't really encourage lots of shirtless, shoeless action; however I have seen it in a few seaside holiday resorts.

The one thing that I would mention is that some places have a 'no jeans' policy. That's generally the more upmarket restaurants, nightclubs and gastropubs; but your average pub or student bar will have no problems with you wearing your usual t-shirts, jeans and trainers.

So keep the shirts for evening trips to classier establishments, and if you do wear jeans, it's safer to wear black ones that just look like plain black trousers. Most places with a 'no jeans' policy would also forbid trainers; you'd have to wear neater shoes. Also, many establishments will refuse entry if you wear any kind of sportswear.

Above all else, just be observant. Look at what your friends are wearing; walk past the pub/club and look through the window or at the queue outside to see what people are wearing; or best of all, Google the venue first to see what their dress code is and dress accordingly. UK dress code can be interpreted as follows:

  • 'Casual' = blue jeans & t-shirt; trainers or sandals are fine
  • 'Smart Casual' = your long-sleeved shirts (no tie, open collar is fine) and chinos or black jeans (no blue jeans); neat but casual shoes (e.g. loafers, boat shoes)
  • 'Eveningwear/Business/Lounge' = suit & tie; smart, lace-up, patent leather shoes
  • 'Black Tie/Semi-Formal/Formal' = tuxedo; smart, lace-up, patent leather shoes
So Smart Casual would be a safe bet for most places you'd want to visit as a student. Oh, and even if an establishment doesn't state its dress code on its website, almost all clubs have photo galleries where they like to show off how much fun their patrons have had. These photos will show you what people usually wear in there... ;)





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Jack_M

Gonna be the weird one out here but I actually like wearing ties both smart and casual. I recently went to a crew film screening and it as a casual outting but I wore chinos with a long sleeve blue shirt with sleeves rolled up and left the top two buttons undone with a skinny tie with skulls on it loosely tied and off centre. It didn't look out of place and actually got some cool comments about the skull tie. Also, it got me way more attention from the ladies than any of the jeans and tee guys ;). There's ways to be smarter yet casual. I was wearing chucks too so I guess that helps with casual look. Everyone's a little different at the end of the day. I like shirts and I like ties and I like putting in a little effort while keeping it casual enough to fit in. I've seen a lot of guys rock the jeans and casual shirt and tie combo and it looks great. To make a shirt casual, it's either untucked or half tucked in with buttons left undone at top.

The good thing is that guys often get away with a lot more and outfits can be smartened up or made casual with ease. Buttoned up shirt = smart. Leave buttons undone at top = casual. Dark chinos with smart shoes = smart. Same chinos with chucks = casual. Kilt with shirt = smart. Kilt with football (soccer)/rugby shirt = casual. Okay last one maybe only applies to us Scotsmen, but you get the idea. It's easy being a dude ;).
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Joe.

Thanks very much everyone! I feel a lot more relaxed now, I think I'll stick with the shirts and get a tidy pair of jeans (black). That's a good idea about looking on the websites for photos of what guys are wearing in their adverts. I'm trying to see what people ar wearing when they're tagged in photos on Facebook and it all seems to be short sleeved shirts with jeans so it should be fine. I hate boat shoes so I think I'll stick to those way over rated vans daps things or the cheap version from Primark for like £4 ;) Thanks again for the tips everyone I feel a lot less anxious. I now just have to work on my amazing dancing skills  ;D
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Jack_M

Oh god!  That dreaded thing: dancing!

I went out last weekend and got dragged onto the dance floor.  For all I look so graceful in martial arts, put me on a dance floor and I look pathetic.  I can summon up the confidence to talk to people and girls even though I'm insanely shy.  But where, oh WHERE, do people find that confidence to dance and not care what others think???  Lol
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Joe.

Haha I hate being dragged on the dance floor. I just tend to do that awkward bobbing up and down thing and swaying from side to side. If that fails, always go for the Dad dancing ;) If you're going to look stupid dancing, you may as well go the full blow, that's what I think haha. I say this, but I'd never dance like that in a club. Friends/family parties yes. Clubs no. Haha know! Some people just dance and it looks so natural then I get up and dance like a fish that's just had it's tank emptied. ::)
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