Okay, I'm going to try this again and hope I don't puss out and decide not to post this.
Anyway, I was wondering about various haircuts. I'm looking for a new haircut that would make it so I don't look overly male, but I don't quite look female (for various reasons I need to be able to switch between the two). My issue: I have a square jaw and high cheek bones (gotta love the Native American in me) and nothing about me says "guy!"
http://i654.photobucket.com/albums/uu261/MauvaisAnge/Bury-TowerofLondon-BanhamZoo072--1.jpg Here's me, please be gentle.

(My parents took the picture and I'm in no way, shape, or form out to them...hence the slow change, haircut, clothes, etc.)
All suggestions are welcome, whether it's just hair or clothes or anything else. (And if this doesn't belong here, I'm sorry, I really had no idea where to put this).