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How Rude!

Started by Yakshini, June 24, 2010, 05:29:07 PM

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Yakshini

I am the member of a social networking site called MyYearbook.com. Generally the site is intended for young people, and various applications on the site are suppose to resemble aspects of high school. There is a Secret Admirer application where you can secretly admire someone and the person guesses who out of a handful of people admired them. There are different games to play for the purposes of getting Lunch Money, a cyber form of currency which can be used to buy "gifts" or donate to causes to be turned into real money for these causes.
There is a newer application called "Ask Me!" on the site, where people can anonymously ask other people questions. Sadly, this application is very often abused and people use it to ask vulgar questions or troll people. Recently one person in particular has been sending me questions in regards to my ->-bleeped-<-. We know who each other are in real life. I'm unclear as to how much she knows about me, but all
I know about her is that she is... a little off. The first time we had any interaction was over MSN, where she explained to me that she was an immortal vampire demon living in a human vessel. She has an incredibly abrasive personality to anyone she isn't interested in having sex with, and has a nasty habit of harassing the people she has a sexual interest in.
I have a relationship similar to a friends-with-benefits arrangement with someone. We pretty much do everything that a normal couple does, only we are not monogamous and we don't use the title "boyfriends". When the previously mentioned woman broke up with her last boyfriend, she immediately began pursuing the guy I am in a relationship with. She started off telling him that she was having troubles dealing with her recent break up and insisting that he was her "only friend" and she wanted him to spend the night with her. It didn't take long for her to start begging him for sex, then to date, then to MARRY. When he continued to reject her, she started asking me the questions on this MyYearbook site.

" Why do you have your gender set as male when you look female? Especially with those tits?"
"Can you prove that you're a cross-gender?"
"What if someone wishes u to prove that u r a cross-gender?"
"So what, r u gonna get a sex change?"
"If you plan on getting a sex change, why do you still have sexual relations with Dustin?"

Granted, the questions themselves aren't rude, but the tone and construct make them very offensive... For the first few questions I just answered coolly and educated, more or less so I could make her look like the idiot. I wasn't sure if it was a random act of mean-ness or if she had something against me because of who I was with, but the last question pretty much made it clear to me. I'm sure if I wasn't trans, she would have just found something else to pick at me about.
I'm pretty sure there isn't much I can do to get her off my back, so for now I'm just ignoring her and refusing to answer any more of her "anonymous" questions. =/
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karenmcd

i would just keep ignoring the questions

the questions are very rude - and not really any of her business at all!
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Shang

Report her for harassment if she doesn't stop doing this.  Then block her a** on the site.  And then tell her to piss off IRL. 
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Yakshini

The guy I talked about, Dustin, he wanted to see what this chick had to say next. So I answered the last question. Here are todays gems.

"Does Dustin know that you plan on becoming a man?"
"does he know that your freakin retarded? be happy about how you were made. so disrespectful to humanity  "
"being happy with the way god made you is not. trying to alter yourself to be someone your not is retarded"
"Ew, and he still f***s you to this day? What a weirdo! But it makes more sense now why he cheated on you."

I think I'm done with those things now. She was confronted about it and insists she hasn't said anything.
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Shang

Goodness....do you have records of these questions?
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Yakshini

Yup. I've still got all the questions. The problem is, they were answered anonymously so she really can't get in trouble for it. I changed the settings so I can no longer receive anonymous questions anymore.
But yeah, Dustin confronted her. At first she said that she saw the questions but didn't ask them, then claimed that her boyfriend was doing it, then that she hadn't even been on the site. Needless to say, she is a dreadful liar.
It's kinda funny though, she was all butthurt that the guy I am "in a relationship" with wouldn't touch her. Now if there was even a chance before, it's gone. That's the price of being a jerk. :p
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Shang

Quote from: Yakshini on June 25, 2010, 03:59:04 PM
Yup. I've still got all the questions. The problem is, they were answered anonymously so she really can't get in trouble for it. I changed the settings so I can no longer receive anonymous questions anymore.
But yeah, Dustin confronted her. At first she said that she saw the questions but didn't ask them, then claimed that her boyfriend was doing it, then that she hadn't even been on the site. Needless to say, she is a dreadful liar.
It's kinda funny though, she was all butthurt that the guy I am "in a relationship" with wouldn't touch her. Now if there was even a chance before, it's gone. That's the price of being a jerk. :p

xD Totally.  Well, hopefully she leaves y'all alone.
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Dryad

[quote...she was an immortal vampire demon living in a human vessel. She has an incredibly abrasive personality to anyone she isn't interested in having sex with, and has a nasty habit of harassing the people she has a sexual interest in.[/quote]

So.. I think all the answers you need to deal with this situation are right here.

She's batpoop insane and socially awkward. Do you need to be offended by someone so insignificant?
Why care about her opinion, especially when her opinion on herself is ludicrous?
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