Nowadays I feel that I tend to get more positive comments.
This weekend, I ran along a hiking course around a small island (but connected to the land) at night. Many people walk there even at mid night.
I could hear some comments by a family behind me. The dad suddenly talked to her daughter at 10s or 20s like "Look at that lady. You have to exercise regularly to have a body shape like hers." Her daughter replied like "Even exercise can not make me have a body shape like hers. In her case, her physical build supports it, but not me". I guess her term of physical build means my height. The whole family kept chatting on me, but I ran faster to avoid any possible embarrassing moment.
Also, in stores, some woman employees easily comment on me like "I thought you were a girl. Your legs are so long and slim!" I reply like "Don't I look like an aged woman?" They always say like "No. You look like a young girl." I thought my biological age should make them call me Mrs., not Miss.
Last week, I had dinner with my male colleague, and he openly talked to the owner of the restaurant that I am a man. But the owner, an aged woman, was so much surprised to comment again and again on me like "Are you really a man? When I saw you entering here, I thought a pretty girl came in. You are so pretty. But frankly speaking, your face is pretty rather than beautiful." I replied like "My mind is more feminine."
And, nowadays, even my mother in law and brothers in law also tend to give positive comments jokingly like "You really look like a girl". And they smile.
I do not know well why attitude of people suddenly changed. My attire? My facial cosmetics? Well... I have to investigate more.
Barbie~~
