Am I transgendered?

[Rosa]

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[Flan]

(again)
sexuality is not gender identity of expression.

besides srs being a not on demand service, one can't use external factors (partner) to justify internal feelings. if it's right for you, it will come out during therapy and hrt.

otherwise my opinion is to work on introspection and self acceptance, not latch to the belief that srs will fix anything more then gender incongruence.