Well; in the NL, it's not a gateway drug because of coffee-shops. Coffee-shops in the NL sell.. Well; pot. Lots and lots of kinds of pot.
They've got lots and lots of regulations to live up to, as well, and usually their guards guard the entire neighbourhood, making the job for policemen a lot easier.
Anyway; in my neighbourhood, selling anything stronger than cannabis could potentially get you into lots of trouble because of the maffia... (The maffia here specializes mostly in cannabis, instead of real-estate.)
So yeah.. In the NL, cannabis is borderline legal. The only problem that has is: No taxation. But also no legal organized plantation, which leaves mass-production of cannabis in the hands of criminal organizations, or organization that automatically become criminal by mass-producing cannabis. Small production is allowed, though. And medical production as well, but the stuff produced for medical purposes is very low quality, so medical users still need to go to coffee-shops to get their medicine, and coffee-shop counter cannabis doesn't benefit from medical insurance.
Me: I don't like cannabis much. I detest other drugs, but I've seen cannabis users being completely destroyed by the drug. Unable to be happy without it, but also unable to be rational or active wíth it. In other words: They smoke too much. That is their decision; it's not a good idea to pop an entire pack of paracetamol, either, right? Moderation is key, and some people are simply bad at that.
But when used in moderation, as a recreational and/or medical drug, it can be very beneficial to society. (As long as I don't have to use it, of course.

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I understand it's illegal in a lot of US states, and I can see the point. It's just that by completely legalizing this particular drug, the chances of people grabbing stronger stuff is smaller. Because in the NL, you can't get strong stuff just as easily as you can get pot/hash. It's easy to get a reaver in the NL; quite hard to get any kind of hard drug. A survey has shown that the NL is quite low on the amount of both soft- and harddrug users, merely because cannabis is borderline legal and easy to get. Of course; I imagine alcohol abuse is just as high in the NL as it is anywhere else.. And that really is a problem. Alcohol is one of the most destructive drugs out there, and free to get for anyone. But.. In moderation, alcohol is not a problem, and some fine products are made with it. (High quality wines, beers and whiskies.) And having a drink every now and then is not a problem for anyone. (Save the ones already addicted, and who've broken the habit.)
So... It's not really an easy debate, is it? After all; much stronger and more destructive drugs exist that are perfectly legal. (Addictive medicine in the NL is extremely rare, but I understand that in the US, they are extremely common, and quite potent, as well.)
So my advice would be: Moderation. Staying high is not good. It's really bad for the brain, for one. But according to a lot of research, a cannabis high every now and then is góód for the brain. Well; at least it's not as bad as staying drunk...
But I'd say: Try to stop. Analyze how you feel. Do you crave to get the feeling of the high back? Then you are addicted. Cannabis is psychologically addictive; not chemically. Or better: Cannabis is not addictive at all. The high it may cause, however, ís.