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I have something to smile about today.

Started by notyouraverageguy, July 26, 2010, 05:53:53 PM

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notyouraverageguy

I went shopping with my mom, again. Yes I know I need to avoid social situations with her &my family, but I can't.
Well it was after our workout, so I was in just whatever clothes.
And I have pretty good gaydar, we've been to this small place before &I read the guy as gay/bi.
So today he spoke to me (in spanish) saying "mijo".. I just shook my head &smiled.. And guess what!
My mom didn't out me, she didn't use pronouns or try to "correct" him.
Its crazy cause I've been down &not too confident, &I was dressed whatever.. And the guy seen me as male. He saw me as younger than him, even though im probably around his age, but still.
Gender expression is NOT gender identity.

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Squirrel698

Hey good on you man!  It's always great to pass especially with someone you find attractive.  Then it's like the heavens have opened up believe me.  Whenever I want to feel high for days I just go to a gay bar and bask.  lol 

I'm really glad your Mother was able to stay out of it for once.  It really isn't her affair if it doesn't bother you. 
"It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul"
Invictus - William Ernest Henley
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notyouraverageguy

Thanks.
Yeah, I was already expecting her to out me. But luckily she didn't!
Gender expression is NOT gender identity.

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