On Wearing A Scarlet 'T'

[Shana A]

On Wearing A Scarlet 'T'
by Rei
Wed Aug 11, 2010 at 08:56:46 PM PDT

http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2010/8/11/892341/-On-Wearing-A-Scarlet-T

Appropriate reactions when you discover something personal about a friend that they never told you:

   1. "Huh."

   2. "I always wondered..." / "I had no idea!"

   3. Congratulations (if good) / my condolences (if bad)

   4. Asking questions, but only if the person seems comfortable answering them.

   5. Letting it be.

Inappropriate reactions: