Hi all,
I have been following this thread with interest (I said about my hips as a bit of fun because it proves nothing). I think the reason we as a people group seek physical signs of our real gender is because we are seeking to understand why we are like we are. Its looking for confirmation for our transition, almost seeking an inter sexed, IS, condition where we are born with girl bits as well as male bits or vice-a-versa (female/male brain not withstanding). If we can prove something like this about ourselves then psychosocially we are more able to accept our condition.
I know that most of us do accept ourselves for what we are, special, blessed, etc, ect, but still we seek that reason to transition or for our transition. It is about self worth whether we have girl elbow, hips, hands, fingers, nose, eye, etc, etc.
Does it really matter? No, what really matters is that we are living out our lives to their full potential and loving it. It has taken me a long time to accept myself and to get rid of a lot of baggage and ghosts along the way, so if I do have girl elbows, hips or not does not really matter. Its interesting but that's all.
Stardust