Hi Kitten,
Welcome and also to your spouse, is he a member as well? Life for TG and spouses can be tough but many of us have been through it and are going through it from every angle.
One of the big things I think is to be happy. OK stuff happens. Horrible stuff can happen. But friendship, love and respect is what makes relationships strong. Loving a person is a commitment from both sides. And it needs to be appreciated from both sides.
Love and Kisses
Cindy