When you are in your dreams, are you a man or a woman?

[Cowboi]

I'm kind of jealous, I don't even have a penis in my dreams. Or at least I don't have any dreams where I get to see that I have one as opposed to just looking like myself in every other aspect.

Why is it even in my dreams I can't have male equipment? lol

I did remember one dream I had recently where I was a female, don't think I commonly have those dreams or maybe I just don't remember them often enough. I only know I was female because I was married to Denzel Washington. At least if I have to have gay dreams I pick good looking men lol.

[brainiac]

I actually had a dream last night where I was doing a drag queen performance, wearing huge heels and garish makeup and everything. It was pretty weird...

[Declan]

I'm usually male. It's always been that way ever since I was little. Occasionally I'll be female, but I've noticed it usually only when my family is in the dream.  I was female in a dream I had the other night and my mum was in it...So was Alice from the L word, but I'm pretty sure that has nothing to do with it. haha

[insideontheoutside]

Oddly enough I notice I'm female if my family is in the dream ... or sometimes if people from my past are. Most of the time I'm male though.

[Tad]

Sex dreams are pretty much exclusively as male.. and always have the better orgasms then real life.. O_o.
Other dreams I'm often fluid between male and female or genderless - as soon as the action turns up and I'm starting to kill zombies or such - I'm male.
Dreams where I am female are often stress dreams - dreams about my parents forcing me to marry some dude etc.

However as of recently..I'm FTM in all my dreams.. I'm stuck in my female body, but everyone views me as male.. and that's okay I guess.

Edit: actually in alot of my dreams (including the sex ones) I'm not human.. sooooooooooooo.. I'm a werewolf or such.. O_o

[Lewis]

I've almost always been male in my dreams, even as a child and before I knew I was transgendered. Occasionally I will have a nightmare in which I'm female-bodied and everyone will be identifying me as female but those are fairly rare. My dreams are usually weird. Like pulp adventure fiction.

[gilligan]

actually in alot of my dreams (including the sex ones) I'm not human.. sooooooooooooo.. I'm a werewolf or such.. O_o

That is awesome dude. I wish my dreams were like that. But instead, I typically am male in my dreams - not always, but most of the time - and that is pretty good too.

[Mark]

always male.

[DylanAugusten]

In all of my sexual dreams I am male-bodied, without fail, but when my dreams are more normal and reality based my gender isn't a factor really. Come to think of it, I can't remember a dream where I've ever been called by any name other than "Hey you!" Weird.

[Vancha]

I have a lot of dreams about masturbation, and I always have male equipment, or I've just discovered that I do and I'm so damn ecsastic.  Then I have to wake up.

I'm male, and I actually have trans-related dreams a lot; about people finding out, and accepting me anyway.  At the beginning of transition, I had dreams that I was trying to keep people from finding out, but now they generally don't, or I tell them myself.  Seems I'm a little more confident about that.

I haven't had a dream with me as female in it for a long time now, but I think... In some of my nightmares, I am.  It depends on the type.  I vaguely remember one in which I was crying in agony, and I remember having long hair.  That wasn't a very clear dream, though.  So, although it's rather vague, I'll have to echo the always male except with some nightmares. It's very strange.

[Lewis]

Come to think of it, I can't remember a dream where I've ever been called by any name other than "Hey you!" Weird.

Speaking of names, shortly after I changed my name legally (to Lewis), I dreamed that I was coming out to my dad, and telling him I was changing my name to Brian. Why Brian, I have no clue. I don't even like the name.

[Tad]

That is awesome dude. I wish my dreams were like that. But instead, I typically am male in my dreams - not always, but most of the time - and that is pretty good too.

yeah.. well I am a little warped.

[rexyrex]

mostly i get weird dreams and i dont remember but i do dream about me as a guy in a swim shorts and all them girls throwing them selfs at me and loads different things i do and wear lol, and i always seem to wake up thinking that i have a hard on, when i have nothing down there, that my nightmare waking up that im in a girl body

[Him]

I'm kind of jealous, I don't even have a penis in my dreams.

Why is it even in my dreams I can't have male equipment? lol

I can kind of relate.
I have allot of dreams where it seems like I'm really buff and...
pretending to be batman or some thing- but lacking the below devices. 
The closest I've ever gotten to being a male in any of my dreams
was recently during a wet dream where I guess I imagined what it would be like if I were in early transition.   

[Aegir]

I switch between people in dreams a lot, I'll be a young boy for a minute and an adult woman for a minute; the only consistent thing is I've never been old. I've dreamed I was older than I am in real life before, but I've never been like wrinkled, grey-haired over 60 old.

[Brent]

I don't remember ever thinking about or talking about what my gender is in any of my dreams, so I guess you could say that that means I don't have one when I dream, or that my gender has just never been relevant and/or never been something I think about in any of my dreams.

[Kentrie]

I am usually a male. I'll dream I'm female at first but then I'm male. I had a dream one time where I actually had a penis and when I woke up I looked down and when I didn't have one I was depressed all day.