UPDATE!
The last time I was there I specifically told them not to send mail to me due to my current living situation. I received mail Monday with the envelope saying this: Last name, First initial of legal name "preferred name." I freaked, almost had a panic attack, cried, etc for a good long while because of this. I called the next day and was told that they made a mistake but that now I won't be getting mail from them. Alright, that's cool...a bit calmer.
Sooo today was my follow up. I had a basic physical and pre-T blood work. Originally I was told that it would be about a month before I could go on T. It turns out I'll be waiting an additional month and a half (making it about 2 and a half months) before I can even DISCUSS the POSSIBILITY of going on T. My next appointment for results is in December.
While waiting to get my blood drawn I sat in a waiting area. I heard my birth name called, which I was told nobody in the office would call me. I figured that since my birth/legal name is fairly common that it must've been for somebody else. They called again...and again...and again for about 20 minutes. Eventually they called my preferred name which I responded to.
It does seem as if they are trying but all of the comfort I had at my first appointment is slowly vanishing.