Wat is it about someone calling me sir

[iris1469]

that makes me want to tear my face off and gouge out my eyeballs. I am so serious, I really feel like doing this when people sir me...................  MAkes me feel like hrt is in vain, meaningless..............

[Izumi]

that makes me want to tear my face off and gouge out my eyeballs. I am so serious, I really feel like doing this when people sir me...................  MAkes me feel like hrt is in vain, meaningless..............

How long on HRT?

I just feel depressed when it happened, but i haven't been sir'd in over a year.

[Megan]

It makes you sound like an old rough-big-hands-typical guy.

It's okay for me though, since I am not on estrogen.

[iris1469]

It makes you sound like an old rough-big-hands-typical guy.

It's okay for me though, since I am not on estrogen.

i guess that is me to the t.................i dont understand what you mean

[Megan]

i guess that is me to the t.................i dont understand what you mean

I mean, I am not trying to pass right now, so I don't take it to heart.

But I see your on HRT (avatar and the cleavage), and then I would be upset.

[Janet_Girl]

Don't let it worry you SuperKitty.  It does happen from time to time.  And a lot of the time, we hear something that wasn't said.

Just remember, he who angers you, controls you.

Just let it slide and go no with your life.

[juliemac]

Some times on the phone.
When I get tired, I drop my voice.

[iris1469]

Don't let it worry you SuperKitty.  It does happen from time to time.  And a lot of the time, we hear something that wasn't said.

Just remember, he who angers you, controls you.

Just let it slide and go no with your life.

Thanks sweetie. you know just to add a little bit. You know I really cant explain why I so strongly hate being sir'd. You know there have been times where I have had to remind myself that cracking someone is NOT very ladylike, which is the ONLY thing that has kept me from doing that at times. Its like when I get sir'd, its fighting words, to me. So what I TRY to do is if it is a man sir'ing me ill mam him or if it a mam ill sir her,,,,i know petty, but its helps a little. I have some major issues man, i really do.

[Janet_Girl]

Believe it or not many of us do the same thing.  Just one little blow for our rights. 

The one I hate is being called or hear people refer to me as "Hey Man"  or "you Guys".   Both of which are generally done in a non-gendered way.

[iris1469]

Believe it or not many of us do the same thing.  Just one little blow for our rights. 

The one I hate is being called or hear people refer to me as "Hey Man"  or "you Guys".   Both of which are generally done in a non-gendered way.

I understand your peevishness about the above. I am a little more forgiving of such because I say it too, Hey dude (ill say to a woman) not refering to gender in any way what so ever... The ones I hate the most are, SIR, HE, HIM, MAN, MISTER, GUY,HIS you get the point... Here is what is ironic, my recent blood work revealed a testosterone level of 7 relative reference range of 250 - 1000, and an 11 in the prolactin column,,,,, And they say testosterone is the fuel of rage......jez

[Izumi]

Thanks sweetie. you know just to add a little bit. You know I really cant explain why I so strongly hate being sir'd. You know there have been times where I have had to remind myself that cracking someone is NOT very ladylike, which is the ONLY thing that has kept me from doing that at times. Its like when I get sir'd, its fighting words, to me. So what I TRY to do is if it is a man sir'ing me ill mam him or if it a mam ill sir her,,,,i know petty, but its helps a little. I have some major issues man, i really do.

Cracking someone is lady-like if you do it with the style of movies.  ^_^b