I am so angry at the mental health system

[Mrs Erocse]

Thanks for the update Jeatyn. Wishing you the very best. We are glad things are going well.

Best Regards,

Roxy & Patty

[Janet_Girl]

I was just wondering how you were doing, just the other day.  I am glad things are finally getting close to the end.  And it is funny how they paid for your initial consult.  Joke is on them.

Give Arisa a hug and kiss from Aunt Janet.

[xAndrewx]

Glad to hear that you and Arisa are doing alright. Hoping for the best for both of you man, you both deserve a good life especially after all of the drama. Good luck with it all

[Sarah B]

Hi Jeatyn

Thank you so much for sharing what is going on with you and Arisa.  I just like others have wondered how things were going on with you.

Social services involvement was supposed to end completely on the 19th of this month. Two days before that, I got a call saying my chair person was sick, and my conference has been delayed by three months -_-

I wonder if they are using this as a delaying tactic?  Something to keep in mind.

I am also now on the waiting list for hormones after SS paid for me to go see Dr. Barratt hoping he'd tell them I was crazy. He basically said they were ignorant bullies and decided to count that meeting as an initial consultation. So in a few months I'll be SS free and shooting up T  ....and it rhymes, making it extra awesome

Absolutely stunning news.  It's about time you had things go your way.  Looks like you are on your way to peace and contentment in your life.

It's just frustrating now. My sister booked time off work to come for the last conference and had even booked me and the other half a week in a hotel so we could go away while she looked after the kidlet, and it's all messed up now -_-

Seeing as there's a thing in my agreement saying if I take Arisa out of Leicester they will issue emergency proceedings *eyeroll*

Make them pay for all the inconviences they have caused you, cost incurred by your sister, lawyers, barristers and anything else you can think of.

Take care and my thoughts and best wishes are with you.

Love and hugs
Sarah B

[Jeatyn]

Just a quick update to say they are officially off our tails it's finally over.

We're going to take a bit of a breather before we start up all the claim proceedings. Just need a bit of a break after this last year.

[Janet_Girl]

YAY!

Even in the ferret world this is good news.

BWT how is our youngest member?

[cynthialee]

YAY!!!!!!

[Lee]

Awesome I'm so glad to hear it.   
Good luck with your claims whenever you decide to file them.

[Jeatyn]

She's doing great Janet :*

I'll go post a few more pics in just for us!

[V M]

That's great news Jeatyn    Glad they're off your case... Taking a break for awhile will also give you more time to decide how you want to go about jumping their cases 

[Taka]

i only recently came by this forum, so i haven't seen this thread before today. all i can say now after reading the whole story is congratulations on winning against the ss! i hate those guys with passion, so please sue their shirts off if at all possible

i'm from northern norway, so i've seen the same peoples ruin more than enough of families because of their own prejudice. they even broke apart my own family, taking away my brother without consulting a psychologist who might have figured out the cause of his obvious distress was actually this child-molester of a neighbor we got here. but that's a long story and there's not much point in telling it here. i'm just so glad that you managed to get a good lawyer and shake them off before it was too late. here they tend to issue emergency procedures as soon as they've made up their minds

anyway.. i wish you luck in your new life as a father, i'm sure you'll do a great job

[Arch]

Fantastic!!! I haven't wanted to bother you...figured you were dealing with more important stuff. And you were.

Maybe things will be just a bit easier for the next trans parent...

[Jeatyn]

It's an awful system explorer, it needs completely reworking, I hear so many storys of familys being ripped apart for no good reason 

I still jump whenever I hear the door buzzer go even though I know it isn't going to be them anymore

[miniangel]

I've been away from here for a couple of months but I've occasionally wondered how you and Arisa were faring. What brilliant news to come back to. Your baby has a very strong dad. I'll wish you good luck for the future but it seems to me that you are determined to make your own luck. Well done.

[Arch]

I still jump whenever I hear the door buzzer go even though I know it isn't going to be them anymore

Pain and suffering! Compensation!!

On second thought, maybe it's better to just let the chaos die down and move on.

[Taka]

On second thought, maybe it's better to just let the chaos die down and move on.

those people are relentless, and will do the same thing over and over again. if all people who're strong enough sue them, it may also help the weaker victims in the long run. if you do nothing after having won your case, it's almost like accepting the way they do things. the chaos they create isn't something that easily dies down, it may be better to do something actively to kill it sooner. and they need to know that it's wrong to treat people like that. false accusations is a pretty severe crime in itself, and the caused fear of doorbells ringing may not ever go away completely. getting compensation may at least let you feel like you've really won, and not just been saved from doom

sorry if i expressed myself poorly, my own feelings seem to be getting in my way

[spacial]

I also feel very bitter both about the behaviour, in this case and in many others I know of, including my own.

But I have to say that ordinary people simply cannot win against the welfare monolith. The reality is they will always fail to repsond, leaving those around us to give them the benefit of the doubt.

I'm afraid that Arch is right here, better to let it lie and die down of its own accord. We can be pretty certain that those involved will be considerably more careful in the future. But these people have enormous powers, reinforced by occasional reports of dreadful situations where welfare workers stand accused of failure.

Still, one thing I have learnt is that Jeatyn is a pretty smart person who plays cards close to the chest. I'm pretty sure Jeatyn will have it out already.