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Started by jacob.ayden.averi, October 22, 2010, 10:18:53 PM

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jacob.ayden.averi

Haha, I figured that'd get all your attention. This is something that's really important to me. Uber. I want-need-to have kids. Not me, obviously, but my girl. I want to get her pregnant, or maybe use my brother for a donor so the child will at least have some of my genes. The thought of not having a baby who's mine...is not an option. But neither is me getting pregnant, because I'd probably kill myself. I've read some science things where they had two female rats and somehow they figured out how to make a baby and the baby was perfectly fine and could have babies. Now, of course I understand that rats are way different than humans. But...it shows hope, I think. What are your thoughts on children?

Aegir

That is the new study on female sperm, which are found in the marrow of some bones. They will not allow humans to create offspring in this way for religious and "moral" reasons as of this time.

IE scared of lesbianiasm ruining humanity etc. It's stupid.
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Samson99

That's so ridiculous.  :-\ If a way has been found for two biological females to have a child, science and society should embrace it! I know this is very idealistic, but really, it's such a good thing.
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jacob.ayden.averi

I'm praying that by the time we're old enough to have kids, rules will change. Seriously, ugh. I'd even sign up to be a guinea pig, maybe. I need a bebe.

Robert F.

Yeah, I'm pretty certain I want kids. At least one. But I was thinking adoption or finding a sperm donor for my future-wife that we both agree upon, if she wants to experience pregnancy, as most women do. If this is legal in the next 10 to 15 years, though, that would be amazing.
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Arch

Not to put a damper on things, because I think that's impossible because you are so gung ho, but I have one word to say on the subject of babies:

Ugh.
"The hammer is my penis." --Captain Hammer

"When all you have is a hammer . . ." --Anonymous carpenter
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Aegir

Quote from: Arch on October 23, 2010, 02:17:52 AM
Not to put a damper on things, because I think that's impossible because you are so gung ho, but I have one word to say on the subject of babies:

Ugh.
Heh I second that Arch. I cannot tolerate a noisy baby.
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Crypt77

I have always been one of those guys who only wants 1 kid and my reasoning for that is...

So I can train him to be a BAMF!!!

In my head, I would want my own kid because I would love to pass on my genes to that said kid (hopefully a son), but honestly...the idea of being pregnant is horrible. I want to be the one impregnating.

But I have always wanted to adopt as well. A kid who never had much...I want to be like Bruce Wayne (Batman) and take a kid under my wing to well...make him/her a BAMF!

...Man I'm lame.  :D
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HarryP

Yeah, I'd like kids, but not till I'm at least 30! I think I'd rather adopt than anything else - my kids would still be my kids, whether they were biologically mine or not.  Sometimes when I'm playing football in the park, I see the dads taking their kids to football or rugby, and I'd love to be one of those dads, one day.
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sneakersjay

I have kids.

I never wanted babies; I wanted kids.  But they come as babies, so there you are.  Two of the coolest people I know, and I'm glad to be their parent.

If you want them, you will find a way to have them.  I think there are some trans family/pregnancy groups on Live Journal somewhere.


Jay


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jmaxley

There's rare times I want kids, but most of the time I don't.  And I NEVER want to get pregnant, so it'd have to be adoption or using a sperm donor for my partner (if my partner was female).  Right now I'm happy to not have kids.  Maybe if I was ever involved with someone that would change.
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aidengabriel

i'm pretty young but i know I deff want kids. really hope that when I'm older science will advance and let my wife and I create an offspring. but if that fails you should deff have your sibling be your donor! i have a twin brother, so that works ^.^
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Arch

Quote from: aidengabriel on October 23, 2010, 12:26:32 PM
i'm pretty young but i know I deff want kids. really hope that when I'm older science will advance and let my wife and I create an offspring. but if that fails you should deff have your sibling be your donor! i have a twin brother, so that works ^.^

This is so cool.
"The hammer is my penis." --Captain Hammer

"When all you have is a hammer . . ." --Anonymous carpenter
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Tad

I think I'll skip the babies and adopt teenagers.
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aidengabriel

^ i thought about that. i know theres TONS of homeless lgbt teens, and when im older i wouldnt mind being able to call one my son/daughter. think that would be easier....compared to explaining to my kids how daddy "used to be a girl". have anyone of you thought about that? living stealth or telling your kids/family the truth?
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Berren

I can't stand children. Having one of my own would be completely out of the question, though that is probably because of my age. I can imagine myself freaking out if a girl I was with long term wanted a babby.
"Passing on genes" has never really been important to me though, so I don't understand why it's so important to some people (like they would rather scientific solutions than just adopt, and I'm not talking strictly about trans people). If I were to adopt, I'd probably want a child that was age 5+.
But still. No thanks lol.
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jacob.ayden.averi

I also want to adopt a baby boy. A Mexican baby boy, just cuz I like Mexicans. :P But yeah, I love babies. I'm pretty good with them, too, I think. ^.^

Berren

I'm really bad with them. I don't really know what to do or say and they generally don't listen to me.
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some ftm guy

i seriously want to badger the hell out of the scientists that found the female sperm in bone marrow so i can use that science some day to be able to get my future wife pregnant. that'd be awesome!!;Deven though the woman i like is also transgendered so...still not going to happen unless there was some sort of miracle transplant of her male reproductive organ to me, my female reproductive organs to her but where inside her would they put them? just sew it to the outside of her stomach so when they c-section the kid out, no after the baby to cut the placenta out they'd cut into the organ it's attached to and she'd either die or almost die from bleeding too much in a really short time, (hemorhage) I'm sad AND confused. :'( blah if i become a parent whether it's with her or another woman some day I'm adopting a baby from foster care in wherever area i live in at that time.
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Kentrie

Quote from: HarryP on October 23, 2010, 04:56:12 AM
Yeah, I'd like kids, but not till I'm at least 30! I think I'd rather adopt than anything else - my kids would still be my kids, whether they were biologically mine or not.  Sometimes when I'm playing football in the park, I see the dads taking their kids to football or rugby, and I'd love to be one of those dads, one day.

I want to be one of those dads too. I would prefer that the child would be biologically mine (Getting pregnant is a big NEVER to me) but since that's out of the question then I would want my future (hopefully I'll find a girl) girlfriend/wife to have a baby that biologically belongs to her. The kid would have to biologically belong to one or both of us. I get depressed when I realize I could never have a child that would belong to me biologically.
Push it baby, push it baby, out of control, I got my gun cocked tight and I'm ready to blow. ;)
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