My private parts are PRIVATE!

[Natasha]

My private parts are PRIVATE!

http://www.questioningtransphobia.com/?p=3322
10/21/10

As the date for my SRS quickly approaches, a very unwelcome kind of weirdness has sprung up amongst my friends: wanting to see my new vagina.

I'm at a loss to explain this really. There have been no requests to view my pre-surgery genitals (to make a comparison), only requests to see the post surgical results. Even stranger, the requests come exclusively from women. Am I missing out on some ritualistic part of womanhood? Do cis females throw parties where they all inspect each other's vaginas?

[lilacwoman]

my bosses and all other female friends say they want to look at mine when I eventually get it. 
At the same time they all laugh at the idea that theirs and all others could be thought attractive and that men are so fixated on porn.