Hi Becky,
Having gone through the system in the UK and now being 4 years post op, I have a few comments on your original post.
The UK system is very different from the rest of the World and we have the NHS of course which will (given the right circumstances) treat people diagnosed with GID.
MY GP initially declined to treat me, but I sat with him and went through a number of downloads from the internet before the practice management committee decided that I could be given treatment.
Within two weeks I had a referal letter for a consultation with a Physchiatrist at a Gender Identity Centre (GIC) and also had counselloring sessions arranged with the local Primary Care Trust (PCT) counsellor (For alleged Suicidal help). He also arranged for me to have speach therapy on the NHS.
I went through Leicester GIC and did this on a Private basis, but many GIC's are also linked to an NHS hospital, although those PCT's that don't will normally refer to Charring Cross in London.
At my first meeting, I was asked to produce my Life Story (20 pages in total) and describe my earliest thoughts, feelins, emotions, sexuality and to undertake various physchological tests to see if I had any underlying Mental disorders !
The aim of the Physchiatrist role is to diagnose GID as a result of determining that NO other underlying mental conditions exist (such as Schizophrenia).
I left that meeting with a Private Prescription for Hormones, which my GP converted to an NHS prescription and to my joy I still use the NHS Hormone route (6 months for $13 can't be bad) despite living outside the UK for 3 years now.
I was offered therapy and counselloring as part of my treatment, but refused after the first session as the guy who was assigned to me was more of a hindrence than a help.
On my second visit to my Shrink, I went with a plan for transition and a list of dates that I was working towards, which includied telling significant others, work, name change by deed poll, date for RLT and planned FFS and SRS dates.
I left that meeting with a letter confirming GID and supporting my legal name change (which I photocopied) and sent to the DVLC, Passport agency etc.
I Changed my legal name on May 1st and a month later with a new passport was in Thailand having FFS, 12 months later I returned to Thailand for SRS.
I was 110% sure in what I was doing, how I was going to do it , but both my shrink and (short lived) Therapist both said that the majority of people they saw where confused, scared, frightened and at times desperate, which I fully understand and therapy, counselloring MUST be a key part of the process, before moving forward.
We have to accept ourselves above and foremost to go through the process and that includes whatever help is available at the time.
My only gripe with both my shrink and therapists was they where telling me what I felt, what I was going through emotionally... where I was the expert in that.
Buffy
(Another Becky by the way)