Why I'm angry
http://ariablue.wordpress.com/2010/10/30/why-im-angry/10/30/10
Calling gay men out on their misogyny is not homophobia. The alphabet soup tried to blame Choi's outburst on the military culture, but I've never, ever heard straight guys say these kinds of things about women even when they were being complete asses. I've never heard straight guys get bitchy and call women "fish". This antipathy that exists in the GLBT towards women and therefore transsexual women is real, and it is at the source of all our problems with them. If they had the least little bit of respect for any of us, they wouldn't stand for this sexist, misogynistic behavior. Making excuses for racists, sexists, gynophobes, and misogynists makes you as bad as the people you are defending.